hahaha mafalda.
sí.

Hahaha.
I guess you're right.
Cultural differences must be taken into account.
If you lived in my parts, we'd settle the argument over a batch over pancakes and a side of bacon to share.

well, i'll have to be kind of careful...especially if i'm trying to talk to a susanita or a madonna ciccone.

Then again, though, if you don't really care about her, and you know she'll hate you anyway, why not go out with a bang?

And, like I said, at least she'll get a "slap in the face", and maybe pick up on reality.

life takes many turns, people change, you never know again when you'll run into each other or in what circumstances.

if i've leaned one thing in my 102 years of life is not to burn any bridges if you can help it. a nice smile works as well as a "fuck you".

If it works just as well, why not choose the "fuck you"?

EH?

AHAH

AAARGHHH!!!
i want to get all this shit off my chest.
NOW!
i wouldn't want to be rude because then, i'll be the BAD one.

well, as i've told you...she's my neighbour.
i don't usually run into her, but my sister and i believe it might start to happen once i'm officially out...hahaha it's OBVIOUS.

You're right. You certainly don't want to lower yourself to her level.

Rip it off like a bandage.

Just say simply "It's not workin' out". Real casual like that, too.

"im really getting into concrete music and i don't have time for the band now, i'm so sorry, it's been great, but, i also have to record this album and..."

a little ass kissing goes a long way

i'm actually recording an album ahahhaa
!!!

tell her you don't like music anymore, and you want to work in a bank instead

which is something worth considering anyway if you want a job with a future.

"when are you going to grow out of listening to that music?"
is something my younger brother(who likes dire straits, etc.) said to me a few months ago.

i'm studying law. i don't want music to become my job. or play for a living, or make tons of money to live properly by playing music.
(this has to do with the reason i want to get the fuck out of the project, too.)

ahahaha i think that people who are devoted to music...will prolly never grow out of listening music. the bands they listen to might change. the styles might change, etc. but...i don't think i could live without listening to music.

just call her and let her know you don't want to play with them anymore and that's nothing personal (even if there is) and that you hope you remain friends (even if you don't want that).

like !@#$%! said, diplomacy.

or just go to a rehearsal and tell them to fuck off and that they are losers, turn around and leave.

hahahaha ok!
those are two quite different and opposite options you are giving me!
the thing is i don't think i want to tell her and only her. i'd be a lot more confortable with another person in front of me telling her...a witness.

hahahaha, so no one can deny you quit.

if i were in your situation, i'd go with the least amount of people in the room.

no, to avoid gossip and distortions, i'd have all the bandmates in the room

"sorry guys, but my record is taking too much time and i can't be in the band, and you deserve better."

ha ha or something like that.