again, I ask, WHO expects this of women? Is it the women themselves? Is it their husbands? Is it the MAN? is it society? Is it Oprah?

All. I think there's this thing, this sort of guilt/defense thing whenever a woman complains about sexism men tend to act as if they're being accused of something. Everyone's sexist, not just men.

the you must be very specific as to who you claim is DOING the sexism.

painting all men with the same brush is just not sound logic.

I think our western culture has twisted things around so much that it is women who drive the other women into behaving as you describe.

women are experts at making other women feel inadequate. men are just good at making women angry.

I think you're ignoring what I just said.

But if I must repeat myself: generally, women help sexism survive just as much as everyone else.

not ignoring at all.

when you say "everyone is sexist" that is a meaningles statement

like saying "everyone is short"

How can you tell if there is nothing to compare it to?

Everyone is sexist.
That's not a meaningless statement.
Because we're all born and living in sexist societies.
I hate it when I have to be obvious Rob.

Some are more or less sexist.

If you saw me you'd think: "not everyone is short, she is".

so are all women sexist against men?

yes, pretty much.

and against themselves, mostly.

Another thing I just found out about the asshole owner: he doesn't want the new pants that the girls are getting to be too tight/form-fitting, so he's making us all order sizes that are too big.
I wonder if there's any kind of lawsuit I could throw at him.

Hey, when did all you women install computers in the kitchen?

Yeah right, like us women are smart enough to install anything that isn't a roast into the oven! Our husbands did it to keep us at bay during that time of the month when Lucifer's blood is seeping out of our vaginas.

not because of the pants, but he can't do anything if you get them changed/fitted yourself.

He can yell at me or fire me.

OH I just remembered that he yelled at me so bad once because the drive-thru was backed up that he made me cry and then, because he doesn't know how to properly apologize, he gave me $50 to make up for it.

Goddd I want a new job.

He might be able to yell, but I don't think he can fire you for making pants fit properly.

Just get a video of him yelling at you on youtube. he might give you hundreds.