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Cantankerous 03.01.2008 08:24 PM

not 17.
i feel like i'm fucking finished right now.
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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
yeah cos you know your future already.

i have this friend, used to be my teacher, when she was 17 she went to the gynecologist begging for a hysterectomy.

she lived her life etc. never wanting children, got divorced, then met this guy she was nuts about-- and started thinking differently-- i think her biological clock kicked in, or maybe it was being with this guy that changed her mind. then the guy (now husband) got a terminal disease & she wanted to have his son but that didnt work out.

years later (in her early 40s) she met another dude got pregnant & conceived a kid she's nuts about. she NO WAI wanted this earlier but now wouldnt trade her life.

now im not saying that you SHOULD want children or will EVER want them.

only that you'd better be absolutely sure before you make such a final decision in your life. better to keep your options open, you never know what's around the corner.

(and that's why i don't have any tattoos-- once it's there, you can't scrub it out).


i am ABSOLUTELY certain. i can't handle it emotionally, i can't handle it mentally, i can't handle it physically.

!@#$%! 03.01.2008 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
not 17.
i feel like i'm fucking finished right now.


i am ABSOLUTELY certain. i can't handle it emotionally, i can't handle it mentally, i can't handle it physically.


of course, you're fucking 17. what did you expect?

Cantankerous 03.01.2008 08:32 PM

a) no, i'm not.
b) i mean that i have a lot of PROBLEMS, okay? i have inherent mental health issues that are never going to go away and i accept that.

Savage Clone 03.01.2008 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
only that you'd better be absolutely sure before you make such a final decision in your life. better to keep your options open, you never know what's around the corner.

(and that's why i don't have any tattoos-- once it's there, you can't scrub it out).



On the other hand, if you think hard about decisions, you usually won't regret them.
I regret neither my tattoos nor my vasectomy.
I waited until the ripe age of 23 for the vasectomy though.

Cantankerous 03.01.2008 08:34 PM

i have thought about this for the last ten years! FOR FUCKS SAKE>

!@#$%! 03.01.2008 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
a) no, i'm not.
b) i mean that i have a lot of PROBLEMS, okay? i have inherent mental health issues that are never going to go away and i accept that.


grumble grumble.

see PM.

✌➬ 03.01.2008 08:48 PM

I like you !@#$%! but why can't you accept cantanky's stand on this issue?

!@#$%! 03.01.2008 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ✌➬
I like you !@#$%! but why can't you accept cantanky's stand on this issue?


i came back to look at the movie times

did you see i wrote her a PM?

yeah. means private.

thanks.

:p

✌➬ 03.01.2008 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
i came back to look at the movie times

did you see i wrote her a PM?

yeah. means private.

thanks.

:p


Whateva's. Well have a good night, I am home alone and time to study. Night.

Cantankerous 03.01.2008 08:58 PM

everyone thinks i'll change my mind. fuck you.
i'll get back to you when i'm 30 and childless.

Savage Clone 03.01.2008 09:13 PM

37.5 and blissfully child-free.
These decisions are individual.

✌➬ 03.01.2008 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone
37.5 and blissfully child-free.
These decisions are individual.


Yes, I used to want to have kids. And i have realized that I prefer to have more money than kids. It sounds egotistical, but it is the truth. Also, I rather not deal with that, all the drama they bring.

Savage Clone 03.01.2008 09:17 PM

I don't have money either, but at least I am enjoying a barren, sterile existence that ends when I die.

✌➬ 03.01.2008 09:20 PM

Well you are a cliché, you know the starving artist.

Savage Clone 03.01.2008 09:22 PM

Do I look like I starve myself?

✌➬ 03.01.2008 09:23 PM

Yes, there is not enough fat around your face. It looks flat.

 

Rob Instigator 03.03.2008 01:54 PM

i am ass kickin

tuirns out that when Kim sings YR THE ONE! YR THE ONE

she was talking about me~!

Everyneurotic 03.04.2008 12:23 AM

a bit less down but still with things to do, not as pressured, though.

Cantankerous 03.04.2008 12:29 AM

still not well.

Inhuman 03.04.2008 12:36 AM

Decent. Been more constructive lately, and doing more in music. Haven't had much time to hang around here though, I'm usually gone out

m1rr0r dash 03.04.2008 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
still not well.


sorry to hear that... hope yr feeling better. i'm still down with a chest cold myself. and i twisted my ankle in the parking lot on my way to acquire some chicken soup.

Norma J 03.04.2008 12:39 AM

I'm going alright. Life is confusing but I've been seeing this beautiful girl and she makes me smile.

Cantankerous 03.04.2008 12:39 AM

i fell down the stairs leaving my apartment yesterday and now i've got a big bruise on my ass cheek and smaller ones all over my legs. it was funny though.

Inhuman 03.04.2008 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
i fell down the stairs leaving my apartment yesterday and now i've got a big bruise on my ass cheek and smaller ones all over my legs. it was funny though.


Falling down can get really annoying. I'd rather suffer more pain than the pain in fall. Hope you start feeling better soon.

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Originally Posted by Norma J
I'm going alright. Life is confusing but I've been seeing this beautiful girl and she makes me smile.

Life is filled with beauty and a good part of it comes from women. I've been talking to this girl lately and I'm dying to introduce her to music and getting to know her. Good luck man

Everyneurotic 03.04.2008 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Inhuman
Quote:

Originally Posted by Norma J
I'm going alright. Life is confusing but I've been seeing this beautiful girl and she makes me smile.


Life is filled with beauty and a good part of it comes from women. I've been talking to this girl lately and I'm dying to introduce her to music and getting to know her. Good luck man


lucky jerks!!!! i haven't met an interesting girl in a long time, all i ever encounter is girls who are neurotically crazy.

Inhuman 03.04.2008 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
lucky jerks!!!! i haven't met an interesting girl in a long time, all i ever encounter is girls who are neurotically crazy.


hey but at least it gives you plenty of stories to tell us. Best luck with finding someone

✌➬ 03.04.2008 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
lucky jerks!!!! i haven't met an interesting girl in a long time, all i ever encounter is girls who are neurotically crazy.


All I ever meet are annoying queens. Ugh, no one ever wants to talk about good stuff. Only the latest Britney shit.

Norma J 03.04.2008 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Inhuman
Life is filled with beauty and a good part of it comes from women. I've been talking to this girl lately and I'm dying to introduce her to music and getting to know her. Good luck man


Thanks, man. She's got it good for me too, which is always great. Since I've been seperated from my ex, the world has opened up alot and all these people have come out of the woodwork and I've been swamped by friendship and love from all directions, guys and girls. Not to mention good friends with my ex still. It's nice to know you're wanted and appreciated for being exactly yourself. This girl takes my heart and my interest. She's definitely special. I look forward to seeing how things go.

And good luck to you too.

!@#$%! 03.04.2008 01:19 AM

im having some troubles focusing at work.

need ritalin or something.

Cantankerous 03.04.2008 01:21 AM

mr. cantankerous is not very happy when i'm not very happy. no one around these parts is happy. i might have to live with that because i don't know what i can do about it.

but it's nice to know that it's better for the rest of you.

!@#$%! 03.04.2008 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
mr. cantankerous is not very happy when i'm not very happy. no one around these parts is happy. i might have to live with that because i don't know what i can do about it.

but it's nice to know that it's better for the rest of you.


what up with you?

m1rr0r dash 03.04.2008 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
lucky jerks!!!! i haven't met an interesting girl in a long time, all i ever encounter is girls who are neurotically crazy.


you meet every neurotic, huh?

Cantankerous 03.04.2008 01:29 AM

plenty of things are up with me.
if you would like to know in detail you can PM me but for everyone else, my mental health has been declining to some degree.

!@#$%! 03.04.2008 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
plenty of things are up with me.
if you would like to know in detail you can PM me but for everyone else, my mental health has been declining to some degree.


holy shit. sorry canks. i hope you get better.

Everyneurotic 03.04.2008 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash
you meet every neurotic, huh?


pretty self profetizing, huh?

should change my user name to "fuckablehottie82".

---

saturnine: don't know if it helps but my friend has mental problems and has to be on meds forever but she's pretty normal mostly; perhaps you need a bit of attention, it helps really.

hope things get better for you.

cryptowonderdruginvogue 04.16.2008 03:26 PM

I've been terribly annoyed with life the past 2 weeks
Everything bores me
Music gives me headaches
When i'm drunk I turn into an asshole, so i've stopped drinking
I don't want to hang with my friends, but I don't want to be alone
I go to bed at 4 or 5am every night and get about 4 hours of sleep
I've been having nightmares involving my friend who passed 2 months ago

I need to go on vacation, but have to wait for finals to be over in 3 weeks.
Well, i'll be going to Coachella next week, but i'll be with friends

Thinking about going to the UK for a week or two alone after i'm done with finals
If anyone would like to meetup for some coffee or a drink
let me know and ill send you my digits

gmku 04.16.2008 03:27 PM

I'm trying to deal with my clueless younger brother, but other than that, I'm living the dream.

nature scene 04.16.2008 03:40 PM

pretty awesome.

about to graduate and get my masters degree. new job interview next week. planning trip to go to puerto rico for my honeymoon next year. got a new delay pedal in the mail. it's a warm and sunny day outside. the new animal collective EP makes me smile.

!@#$%! 04.16.2008 04:12 PM

good

im a bit sleepy but the week is slow

i need to go read or something.

sobriquet 04.16.2008 06:32 PM

I'm pretty much going moment to moment right now.Thanks for asking though.


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