or maybe it's about economics :(

You don't have control over the dreams, yet at the same time the dreams are completely fabricated in your own mind, so it's the lack of conscious control you have that can lead to others' hurt feelings. The dream can appear to be a manifestation of your innermost feelings about a person, unbridled by your possibly usual suppression.

what i had in a dream once was that i had hurted (emotionally) the feelings of my friends

good point, not typical of my dreams though...i mean usually don't have that type of dream. i suppose i forgot that everyone has different kinds of dreams.

this although it makes sense, i cant think ways to make it interesting, because a) its not dreams, b) its just my bedroom and i there on bed the way i fell asleep and things/people/figures happening around me, and c) for example, i dont want to have porn 'dreams' while am at it, because there is so much pressure to get out of it while it is happening, so i dont believe this will be much fun..:(


about that dream with the person, who would get hurt if he knew:
the dream isnt reality, but the way i feel while in the dream and after (relief) is, and he would get hurt because its very close to ultimate rejection.

i see, i would like to believe if i was that person i would understand...but i can see how most could get hurt.