plus, if there's more to cleaning up than throwing away a condom it's too much of a hassle :p

Maybe if I went out and payed for it I could get into it but with a partner that I love I just couldn't go there comfortably, to me the fact that I love her is all the stimulation I need, I don't need to playact to get my rocks off. If she was into it and asked for I might try it but I'm sure it wouldn't be too much longer before I'm looking for a new partner.

Ditto what Jossie said....

that is kind of true.

when it's natural it just is.

reminds me of this man i knew who wanted to hear all the time how WRONG it was.

TELL ME THIS IS WRONG, if it's not wrong then it's no fun.

there is a reason they call certain things degenerate.

we are on the same page here.

but then if the feeling of wrongness is there, they gotta do something about it.

children have specific times where certain imprints are made in their brain, and these imprints shape behavior for the rest of one's life.

sometimes these imprints halp fixate the combination of food urge with the sexual urge.
Other times the sexual imprint is combined with pain, or scatological experience.

this is not to say that anyone who likes painful sex was imprinted thus, but that there are people who cannot have regular sex, not because they choose not to, but because their brain will not arouse at regular sex, unless pain, food/scat/humiliation is involved.

there is a difference betwene someone who likes to play act submission and someone who cannot get any sexual release UNLESS there is submission involved./

I like to look at pictures of nuns having sex with tentacles. :o

you maybe should not have gone to Seaworld with the catholic youth group as a kid....
seeing that nun diddle her puckered asshole with that fake rubber octopus really messed ya up!

you just made me so hot right now. do you mind if I sit here, with my penis tied up, thinking about what you just wrote?

too late. I'm alreadddy onnnn it....o

UGHGNGNG

UNNNNNGGGGGGG

Cf: http://www.sonicyouth.com/gossip/showthread.php?t=39757