oh, man.

if you don't really like him i think you should end it. but that's just me.

No I like him, I think I preferred him as a friend, and able to sleep with him. I don't know what to do.

i guess maybe a friends with benefits thing?

you do have a weird relationship with your ex, i mean, you're not together but you are together, that's got to be painful.

both affairs are pretty dramatic dude, i would end both but that's me.

that always sounds nice in theory, but in practice it inevitably turns to shit as feelings develop.

I should end both I think it would be selfish of me to keep being with him if I don't have the feelings he has for me. I still think we would be better off as friends, I want to tell him this, maybe friday when I see him.

grow some balls :p

but really, you should have manned up & split for a time from the old boyfriend when it was the time.

did i see this oh so clearly in my prophetic vision?

fo' sho'

true. i don't really know much about relationships so i really shouldn't be talking.

Well we both know this isn't going to last, I may move to New York next year or the year after that. We know this isn't going to last, so this is odd. We already know this, but we are together because for some odd reason.

just some dirty old man advice: if you ever like a boy immensely but he won't give you the time of day, don't offer him to be "friends with benefits" just so you can get him. it won't work and you'll just end up hurt more. it's better to put some distance & forget. really.

laziness? convenience? habit?

eh i dont meant to crap on you, just a little dose of reality. told you, you should have put some distance between you & the ex-boy, & let things cool off. the "stay friends" gimmick never, but ever, ever, works.

i don't know how you can stand that emotional limbo.

either stay with him and work your problems out or move on, at least stop grinding your feelings every day.

!@#$%!- i'm actually really tired of boys, to be honest. the good ones are difficult/gay/married and the bad ones are just that.

eh, you're awesome, you'll find one, in time. just not in a seedy bar. :p:D

!@#$%!: staying friends works when a ton of distance and time passes. still, it's weird.

!@#$%! I think it is convinience. That we are still together. In my honest opinions is working fine, but I may be wrong.

your honest opinion? please define "honesty". enlighten us. :confused:


yes yes of course. a ton of distance & time. he waited all of 5 minutes to start fucking the ex again. now as "friends". wtf??

You will find that guy, don't worry.

!@#$%!- well to me it seems that is doing good. But I need to talk to him on where he is on an emotional level.

nah. maybe a nicely-lit bar :p

i do have a pretty cool bf but to be honest i don't know what i want. but it's that awkward 'he's my good friend' thing..