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EMMAh 07.15.2008 05:56 PM

Fuck self centered bitches
 
I am a pretty mellow person, besides my crazy hyper, crackhead like moments. Drama is something I stay as far away from as I possibly can because honestly, high school/teenage crap isn't worth making a fuss about most of the time.

So, I have this friend who I have known for a good seven years. She lives for drama (she'd tell you that's not true, but if she hates it so much why have I time and time again seen her nose into other peoples business, looking for something juicy?

I'm sick of fucking listening to the crap all the damn time. She'll invite me to her house and when I get there she's talking on the phone to someone she says she hates and wont even say hello to me. When she gets off the phone she'll talk about herself and her drama for an hour maybe and then vacuum and fucking shower. Who invites someone to hang out and pretty much ignores them the whole time? Not to mention before she does anything herself, she asks someone else to do it for her. If they don't most of the time she'll just wait for someone else to.

Personally, I think I'm a pretty good friend and that I should be treated better. I always listen to what she has to say and try my best to help her through tough times, while she doesn't do fuck all for me except smoke my weed and cigarettes because she never has any (:fuckyou:)

So yeah, I haven't hung out with the girl for about two weeks and yesterday she was all, "Why are you ignoring me?" so I told her and she spent the rest of the night crying and all our mutual friends were calling me asking me to cheer her up? Cheer up the little fucking princess? No thanks.

No matter how I say anything, it's going to come out sounding mean.

This isn't the first time this has happened, and I know she'll never change because it's who she is. I'm turning 18 tomorrow and I want to start hanging out with people who are more like me and doing things that I want to do. I'm only going to be young once and I don't want to spent all the time tagging along listening to someone else's garbage.


Fuck self centered bitches!

That's my rant.

Danny Himself 07.15.2008 05:58 PM

Fuck bitches.

pbradley 07.15.2008 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EMMAh
I'm turning 18 tomorrow

Could have sworn you were older. Sounds like you're burdened by being mature. I hate drama myself and have become quite adept at avoiding it.

Anyways, happy birthday.

!@#$%! 07.15.2008 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EMMAh
Fuck self centered bitches!


i will! just for the experience! where do i sign?









--

ok, terrible joke, i know.

but yeah-- no need to cater to the emotionally unstable. the overly needy & desperate-- they will suck you dry.

Sonic Youth 37 07.15.2008 08:12 PM

I give this rant a 9.4. Fuck her, you don't need any of her emotional bullshit.

Johnny "Magic Fingers" 07.15.2008 08:12 PM

Yeah, I'll quite the pacifist, non-violent type - but it's anecdotes like this that make me think what's required is a nice, crisp slap across the face.

It doesn't really work though - I'd imagine it would feel really good for a few moments, but then you would feel really guilty when the person started bawling their eyes out....

Anyways - Happy Birthday and I predict you'll probably still have to deal with this kind of shit until yr early 20s. After that, you go from dealing with teenage drama queens to all-grown-up-but-still-without-a-clue drama queens. That's showbiz...

Anngella 07.15.2008 08:50 PM

Not having any friends appears to have benefits! Who would've known?

Anyway Emmah, I dealt with a lot of this stuff in middle school and I managed to ignore it most of the time or make sarcastic remarks or change the subject or something. I don't really know. Hope things work out! If not,
 
her face

acousticrock87 07.15.2008 09:13 PM

I was going to say you should just tell her how you feel, until I read that you already did that. Basically, at this point, she's in her place. You may end up friendly again, but don't try for it. If she's going to change, she'll come to you. You sound like you think she won't, so it's her loss. You were a good friend and you stuck it out for a while. You can't do that forever.

You'll find better people, and your mutual friends aren't stupid (hopefully). If they don't take your side, they'll at least stop defending her after a it cools off. You can't be the only person that sees she's a bitch. They probably just don't see the sharp edge as often.

If all else fails, know that you're way ahead of them, and I assure you you're a happier person than she is and will have way better friendships your entire life.

Alex's Trip 07.15.2008 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EMMAh
I'm turning 18 tomorrow and I want to start hanging out with people who are more like me and doing things that I want to do. I'm only going to be young once and I don't want to spent all the time tagging along listening to someone else's garbage.

Agreed agreed agreed.

I hang out with several people that are all older than me because many of the people my age are obnoxiously immature.

tw2113 07.15.2008 10:30 PM

sounds like it's due time for a cunt punt

Cantankerous 07.16.2008 12:49 AM

stab her in the crotch

MellySingsDoom 07.16.2008 01:09 AM

It sounds like she's using you - I bet she slags you off behind your back too. Kick that bitch into the curb.

Mostly Harmless 07.16.2008 02:58 AM

That rant looked like it felt so good.
Happy Birthday.

_slavo_ 07.16.2008 03:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EMMAh
I'm turning 18 tomorrow and I want to start hanging out with people who are more like me and doing things that I want to do. I'm only going to be young once and I don't want to spent all the time tagging along listening to someone else's garbage.


You are a very smart girl.

Damn, now I see Alex's Trip quoted the exact part of your story too. Now that has to mean something.

greedrex 07.16.2008 06:30 AM

 

ploesj 07.16.2008 06:34 AM

there is always a moment when you have to say stop to these people. they won't change and it will only get worse. well done!

tesla69 07.16.2008 01:05 PM

can i get her phone # from you, she sounds hot..and happy birthday!

SuchFriendsAreDangerous 07.16.2008 02:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EMMAh


Fuck self centered bitches!

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EMMAh 07.17.2008 05:30 PM

Thanks guys, so far I have no regrets about my choice and I don't see myself having any in the future.

I talked to her again after I posted that. Went down to the beach and smoked a joint on the way so when I talked to her I was super relaxed. After telling her everything about her that pissed me off (haha) she asked me what I liked about her and I didn't have anything to say.

We pretty much broke up haha. I hope maybe she at least kind of gets it and takes something from this crap. I know her like the back of my hand though, and I don't think that's going to happen.

MellySingsDoom 07.17.2008 05:32 PM

Good for you, Emma. You've made the right decision - I loathe people who are users. You seem far too nice for the likes of her.

I almost wrote "far too mice" there, heh heh.

the ikara cult 07.17.2008 05:37 PM

Thats a fine and righteous rant Emmah, if you could make fancy frames for righteous rants i would frame it so.
Selfish cunts deserve a really cuntingly bad time. Amen

EMMAh 07.17.2008 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MellySingsDoom
Good for you, Emma. You've made the right decision - I loathe people who are users. You seem far too nice for the likes of her.

I almost wrote "far too mice" there, heh heh.


I'm far too rat for the likes of her.

ithinkimissyou 07.17.2008 05:42 PM

You made the right choice Emma and went about it the right way

Your acquaintance may grow out of this, it could be a phase; however there's no point in subjecting yourself to dealing with her bullshit in the meantime. If you and others simply continued bowing to her every whim, she would never change.

So actually, if there's any flicker of self awareness in her head, it may turn out that you've gone an done her a huge favour and she'll actually grow up.

Anyway, respect and all that.

MellySingsDoom 07.17.2008 05:43 PM

"EmmaH is Queen Rat/Y'all know that/Cycling to psych/on her groovy goddamn bike/From Point A To Be/In A Scoring Weed/Thang/Dang!"

(Copyright MellySongs Music/"Will This Do?" Publishing)

Magic Wheel Memory 07.17.2008 08:04 PM

Good for you, Emma. You did the right thing by being honest with her. Maybe she will use that as constructive criticism, maybe she won't, but you gave her a chance. Either way, it's not your problem now, and you're free from a "friend" who was nothing but a headache.

Happy Birthday!

ithinkimissyou 07.17.2008 08:35 PM

so

i'm on msn right now

and two girls are giving out to me about each other

saying more or less the exact same thing

"i hate her, she really annoys me"

do i take the emma approach

MellySingsDoom 07.17.2008 08:36 PM

Tell them to Go Fuck Themselves. Life's too short to worry about shallow morons like them.

In fact, send them my way - I'll sort them out for you :)

ithinkimissyou 07.17.2008 08:52 PM

*bangs head against keyboard*

i'm unbelievably tempted

i'm not cut out for the sagely older thing, what's worse is, because i'm telling one of them "hate" is a strong word, in their opinion i obviously want to fuck the other. this is insanity.

block button it is :)

EMMAh 07.17.2008 08:55 PM

My goodness, fuck those girls. They're not worth your time.

Nevermind 04.26.2013 09:37 PM

OP's a self-centered bitch

Keeping It Simple 04.30.2013 09:10 AM

It's the weed. It can turn some people into self-centered psychos. One for the men in white coats, I think.

EVOLghost 04.30.2013 09:47 AM

Why set the limit to self centered ones? Fuck...all the bitches.

Keeping It Simple 05.02.2013 07:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EVOLghost
Why set the limit to self centered ones? Fuck...all the bitches.


Lets have a national holiday once a year for culling bitches. "Culling Bitch Day" we should call it. The world will be a better place without 'em. :D

SuchFriendsAreDangerous 05.04.2013 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EVOLghost
Fuck...all the bitches.


 


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