Kissing
 

ok so discuss kissing but i didnt know where to ask this question

This girl i am sort of having a thing with likes to kiss girls and her friends when she is out but she doesnt kiss random guys like some other girls will.

I feel weird about this because the way i see it, a kiss is a kiss and it shouldnt matter if its a guy or a girl and i cant understand why you would kiss a girl or your friends like this. I dont have many friends so i have never been with a group of people that like to make out.

what do i do?

...? You're serious here?

I don't know, maybe Australian girls are traditionally more frigid, but... usually I'd say "big friggin' deal". The majority of "girl friends" I have are pretty comfortable having a sly kiss with girls at clubs from time to time or whatever - double standards, I know, but... I wouldn't think much of it.

It depends if it's a really regular thing, I suppose. I mean if she actively pursues girls to hook up with... well, yeah, I'd be concerned. If it's casual though, it's nothing out of the ordinary from my experience. It depends on how strongly you object, really, but they probably count for nothing, and I wouldn't be too concerned.

yeh i think its the double standard thing i just dont like. Im sure i sound like an idiot.

Kissing? Is this some sort of weapon or sport? Make this clear to me...

what you should do is give me her phone number.

i smell group sex...

So that's what that funky smell was. Dammit, I thought my drains were playing up again.

Girls kissing girls is something that I suspect that many hetero men are into. Not that they'd admit it to their other halves, though.

it's just a phase a lot of girls go through, i guarantee you that she won't be doing that sort of thing in about 8 years. i highly doubt it will lead to anything like group sex either.

Toilets and Bowels said it perfectly.

pictures please...so I can properly assess the situation.

ps-look how much the word 'assess' resembles the word 'asses'....haha

pps-this was also a play on words...and pictures of their asses may help as well...

how old are you?
usually in high school time there's the period girls are into lesbian kisses...
I remember some friends of mine when on holidays they used to kiss all the time also among people and that was embarassing for us guys...
do like this: ask a friend of yours male to kiss him in front of her, and see her reaction.
do you make love at least?
if it's not a sexual attraction, I'd think about borderline stuff.

yeah i went though this phase, it will pass. If you feel weird about it then talk to her about it. Although if you are only "sorta having a thing with" her and are not exclusive then you need to discuss being exclusive first.

When two people's lips tocuh one another.

Hmm, well you seem to suggest that this thing the two of you have is pretty casual, so if what the two of you have is casual and there's no monogomy with it, why should you feel bad that she goes around kissing other girls? At least its other girls and not guys. If I'm wrong and you believe what you have with her isn't casual, then you need to clairfy your point of view of the thing you two have going. I think the majority of girls who are straight have kissed/made out with other girls, just to try it, doesn't necessairly mean she's bi, just something to do for a goof or when you're tipsy/drunk.