S + M and bondage
 

I had a dream in which I was asked if I was into S+M. I said with a smile, "I don't know, never tried it."

What do you guys think about S+M, perverted, normal, etc?

I think it is pretty normal up to a point. There is emotional and physical S+M, and emotional S+M seems far more bizarre to me.

I wouldn't mind being spanked, whipped, or paddled and I think I might enjoy it. But being called a loser while being paddled would be a little humiliating.

I don't really feel any need to be the dominant one, although if my partner wanted it, I would do it with pleasure (women getting off is very sexy to me, and if being whipped was her prefered method, I'd be happy to oblige)

On the bondage side of things- I think hostage fetishes are really odd, but handcuffs and restrained limbs seem perfectly normal to me.

I knew this thread was bound to pop up at some time. I also figured it'd be you Julian that brought it up. Not a bad thing or whatever. Just predictable.

But anyway, the topic at hand. No.

:)

I'm flattered by your reasoning.

I don't think I could bear it. If anything, the action of getting spanked seems very unflattering, possibley painful, and in no way erotic.

Forget BDSM--what about bestiality? I think that's when you have to start asking yourself questions. For instance, I'm pretty sure I saw a guy on Jerry Springer who married a horse.

What about horsie.net?

That was really gross.

As long as its not illegal, to each thier own when it comes to thier kinks and fantasies.

And then i get accused of submitting pointless threads?Hmmm.......

Spanking someone's ass once in a while is normal.
Kicking someone in the nuts or hammering a nail in someone's penis is not normal.

there is nothing wrong with a bit of slap and tickle.

Never heard of it.

i don't think you could handle it anyway

You're absolutely right. I am a delicate feminine flower.

how do you know if that's what i meant?

that is not really consistent with truncated's avatar..

Much love for Trevor Brown!

I watched a programme t'other night called 'Feitshes' sone by the guy who did the 'Kurt and Courtney' film. God their's some weird people out there.

One guy who said he constantly thought about things like genocide etc. etc. said the only way he could feel calm about these things was for ultimate humiliation to be done on him. So he had a session at his place called Pandoras. Starts off pretty tame, then one of the girls (there were two of them) made him get on his hand's and knees she sits on his back and makes him crawl all the way to the toilet. They then told him to pick up the seat wih his mouth then lick the rim of the toilet they then proceded to flush the chain whilst his face was in it. Leaving him for him to be interviewed. Weirdos.

Just re-read this, god it reads like some porn mag story.

whoa,

skimming over the post is see "spanking" and "kicking someone in the nuts"

s/m is pleasure through pain, not about inflincting torture & death
you don't need the whole trekkie outfit, just a little sense of adventure.
some people get off on the pain & humiliation, some people get off on dishing it out.

the whole experience is supposed to be safe however. destroying someone's organs or psyche is NOT s/m.

anyway some people need to get laid around here. i suggest regular fucking first, then build up to more interesting things. internet sex, boring. im wasting my time to post for educational purposes only, because i'm that generous. :p

ah toxic johnny-- would you agree some of these peoples are like trekkies? with the silly outfits and all? (and the "follow the follower" mindset) :D