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Originally Posted by Nefeli
how long do you know her? (she obviously needs professional help).
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yeah, i know. she has all characteristics of borderline and mythomania. i kind of stopped meeting up with her because she annoyed me so much (always talking about the guys she slept with and how much she drank last night and never even showing a snippet of intrest in anyone else... i remember her talking about her boyfriend while he was sitting right next to her and saying "well, he's everything i need: rich, hot and under 30")
she would text me on school days at 3 in the morning, asking me to go out and drink. when i replied i was in bed already and had to get up early, she would get mad and not speak to me for days.
when i met th boy who is now py partner, she was going all "oh he's so nice let's invite him to this and this and this" but as soon as she noticed he was interested in me she got pissed, and after we became a couple she didn't want him to be anywhere near her anymore and kept making snide remarks about him...
that sort of stuff happened before, when she'd meet some asshole in a bar and ask him to her party the next day, then threw herself at his feet. when the guy tried to hit on me instead (i rejected him) she suddenly hated him.
me, my boyfriend and another illustrator were celebrating the other illustrator's birthday at a bar, drawing comics together. she texts me to ask if i want to go out with her. i say i'm at this place already, drawing. she shows up and bores the crap out of everyone with drunk stories, then gets mad because we are still drawing and not listening to her in awe.
that and all the lying... saying she had relationships with guys she doesn't even know, saying that she has been asked to sing at the opera and then never mention it again, saying how she can play soooo many instruments but never actually hear her play.. cancelling going to a concert i ordered tickets for because she is sick, making me having to sell the tickets last-minute, and then posting 'last night as the bar was great' on facebook the next day.
i've known her for a year and her behaviour got so bad even her oldest friends are avoiding her now. she really needs help, and she constantly says that she has issues and is crazy, but she says it like she's proud of it. it makes her different and more special than anyone else.
as long as i keep getting texts like 'hey i want to meet up with you but please make sure that boyfriend of yours is not around' i won't actively get in touch with her anymore.