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It's hard. Not knowing any good music, art or books is a turn off, but talking about it all the time as if it's supposed to define who you are also is. Like a shield. I don't feel comfortable around people who don't feel comfortable admitting any vulnerabilities, if that makes sense.
Intelligence is another thing. Being smart and intelligent is always good, but acting like that's all you have to be isn't. Another thing is people that brag about how great they're supposed to be in bed - waste of time.
People who care too much about what others think - too superficial, too vain, too concerned with status - those are the worst.
But I guess the worst thing for me is people who don't enjoy communicating and make too many assumptions - people who don't bother talking about something or judge others too much.
Overly 'confident' men are the worst tho. A shitty pick up line is not always necessarily shitty, but the idea that the person has zero interest and respect for you as a human being is just trying to prove something to friends or himself. An awkward line can even be cute if the guy is just shy.
People who aren't passionate about anything - that's a turn off.
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