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whoah..i thought this must have been an old thread.
i havent read it yet.
i can tell what it is about.
i read the first few entries.
my first reaction was that the title 'so many ladies' didnt strike me well. perhaps because it was obvious that it was going to be about sex.
i think that title bothered me more than the 1st post of Rob.
the next thing that i always do it such cases, is that i put myself in the other's shoes. what if i or what do i do when i speak about men like that.
'oh wow, at my gym the analogy of attractive men is astonishing'. am i wrong too? am i being sexist as well? is it more acceptable when women talk like that about men like that? and why.
then all becomes bit blurry, but what is a fact, is that the way women talk about men isnt that degrading. perhaps its our way of expressing, but def society is to blame.
i will read this thread when i have time for this. sorry.
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