ive never remained friends with exes. not out of spite or anger but rather because it's hard for me to see people un-naked. or, to put it in a more delicate way: you can always increase intimacy in a relationship, but how do you reduce it? how do you make off-limits what once was wide open? i'm not saying just sex, but secrets, complicity, private languages, private jokes, private worlds, stories, all kinds of things. it's not that i haven't tried to remain friends with exes, but eventually things get awkward and the only sane way left has been to cut things off completely-- to be able to move on with life and avoid too many cravings and hurt feelings. or else, just get back together.
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Originally Posted by Nefeli
a very popular dj couple and they still work together, are friends and even go on vacations together.
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they can't
not be having sex too, can they?
i'm thinking of a bergman film i'd rather not mention because spoilers.