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as for why two lesbians are considered hot and two guys are considered gross, i think the "hotness" is completely dependent on the feminine aspect. for instance, i don't think guys want to see a two butch girls making out. two hot girls making out are still feminine. the reason people aren't as into watching guys is because it takes away from the masculinity (though i'm sure i'll get someone arguing with me there.) people are attracted to the femininity of women and the masculinity of men, which is why we are attracted to one sex over the other (whichever it may be). when one of those aspects is compromised, that's when the on/off switch in your brain either says "that's hot" or "that's not." just my take on that whole thing.
as far as being born with it, i'm pretty sure it is genetics. i knew my cousin was gay when he was three years old, not because of anything sexual but just because he was into things girls were into and he thought and acted like a little girl. there's a lot more to homosexuality than the sexuality aspect, in my opinion, though i'm a heterosexual so i guess i have no real authority.
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