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Originally Posted by cuetzpalin

i have a boyfriend and he's really nice on me but he just don't know "what to do". and i don't wanna be unfaithful. it sucks

oh shit, you should have started from the beginning. "my boyfriend is a lousy lover" would have been a more appropriate thread. the original title threw us off a bit.

well that changes everything, no?

i see you've failed at teaching him. not sure you can "teach" him-- maybe get him a book? you know, telling him on the spot will only cramp his style if he's already insecure. let him read, soak it in, put it into practice. is he's a lazy motherfucker, then kick him to the curb.

now about the kindness, etc-- it's easier for a person to learn to fuck than to learn to be a decent human being. so i'd exert a little patience. some people have traumas & shit & it takes time, patience & understanding & work to unleash the beast within. by patience i don't mean sitting around doing nothing, i mean doing something about the problem and giving time for the results to happen. he might be a late bloomer (how old is he anyway?). then again maybe deep inside he really wants a man-- but who knows?

by the way you haven't explained very well in what way he is "bad" in the sack. i mean, is his dick limp or is he a premature ejaculator or is he constitutionally unable to eat pussy or what? does he not do foreplay? is he so, so very kind that he does not want to treat you like a sexual object , but prefers to hold hands and talk about his dream upholstery instead? sorry to be blunt, but with these matters it's better to avoid beating around the *cough cough* bush, no?

so, what exactly IS the problem?