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Originally Posted by nomadicfollower

Fair advice, though it has come into my mind before. I know thinking is the problem, is my problem. I just don't know how to combat it.
However, it is not possible that she's nervous at all, for various reasons which would be apparent if you knew her.
But, when school's out she's moving to New York to go to college (yeah, she's 18) so if I were to make a fool of myself, the torture would last just as long as her presence.

oh, 18 vs. 16. hm... well maybe you're just her little friend. but if she needs to experiment before she goes to college... do you want to pass the opportunity?

then again my fisrt "serious" girlfriend was 18.5 when i was 17. we were awesome together.

but maybe just find yourself a 15 year old who's as nervous as you & you can be nice to each other.

however--

if you really want this other girl you just you just gotta you just you just gotta yes you gotta yes yes yes you gotta try.

deep breath, stop thinking, mouth her.

if she throws a fit, then "oops, sorry, i misread you, ha ha". but if she doesn't... da win!