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Originally Posted by luxinterior

I just think every person is always looking out for their own best interests, which negates the idea that anyone could be nice, especially when it comes to relationships. This isn't pessimistic or scary, it's just reality.

wow luxy-- really?

i don't think that's the case with everyone-- there's a point in a healthy relationship when the other person becomes like you-- i mean, they become your family and you do care about them and sure everyone has selfish instincts buy they are mixed with altruistic ones. human behavior isn't so cut and dry, and we have genetics to think for it... just look at mothers. sure reproduction is the most selfish of instincts, and yet mothers of many species will give their lives to protect their young. it's all very tricky & complicated. but it's great when you find someone who can be a part of your little tribe. so to speak.