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Originally Posted by Katy
Yeah, Im alright, sort of. Everything's just a bit weird at the moment. I just found out when the funeral will be, so now I'm calling around talking to my brothers about what-to-wear and stuff.. they're more upset than I am. I find myself offering endless cups of tea.
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remember to get a cup for yourself too, or accept if somebody offers...
funerals are strange, but they do help somewhat, i think, ritually, in spite of the awkwardness. but then there's a need for private rituals & i hope you & your brothers find one that help you deal... i keep some objects that belonged to my grandfather on my desk, and they keep him alive somehow.
please be well & take care of yourself.