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Originally Posted by Inhuman
Telsa69 is right, the term 'love' is used so casually that the real feeling means so much more, and it's also something difficult to imagine when you're not experiencing it
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yes but the "love" tesla is speaking off is more of a codependent obsession that disappears with time, having more to do with bottled-up sex taking over the brain than with any noble feelings.
real love (hard to use that word in public without cringing) doesn't require you to become someone else.
in the case of julian's mom, as with any marriage, the deranged state of mind tesla describes, which induced her to marry, had long been replaced with something else, after living together & having children, let's just not go into what it may have been.
if you guys think lovesickness remains in place some 6 months after the first sexual encounter with your "loved" one, you're seriously deluded. the altered state of mind is replaced, fortunately, for something more real.
ps- julian, sorry about your mutilated schlong