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phoenix · 09.07.2007, 08:42 AM

so...

often times when boyshape gets home from work at about 12 am or 11pm.. I am still wanting to do my work etc. I'm more of a night owl. And he usually just wants me to come to bed. I can understand that he is tired because of the work he does. (he assistant stage manages a theatre show atm) I've tried many things to help him to become less tired.. in the way of healthy foods and a little exercise and relaxation techniques etc. But in himself he has quite ingrown unhealthy ways. I'll cook something for him for when he gets home at 11 or so, if he asks.. yet he'll still grab nasty take out on the way home!! I have no doubt that his lifestyle contributes greatly to his lethargy. He does try.. He's seeing a chiropractor and even tackled his fear of needles and has had acupuncture. I just cant do much more than be supportive, and its difficult when there are a few habbits he just cant seem to break, even though he'd feel so much better if he did.

My point though is that, at the moment we live between houses. We sleep at a room at his parents house. I migrate between my moms house (where my cat lives) and his parents house.. and my work+school haha.

I've been putting off moving in together for a couple reasons but one that plays on my mind is how little time we do get to spend together.. yet we're usualy tired or on different body clocks when it does happen. And I know I wont change and will NEED to feel comfortable being able to stay up late and work if I need to or want to. And not feeling like Im being a bad person just because mostly I'm less lethargic than he is. :s

I suppose I get more lethargic when Im on meds, which Im not at the moment.

we've potentially found a house to move in to, and its just something I really need to tackle so I feel as though there is a solution reached before we move in.

sigh.

09.07.2007, 08:42 AM	#1
phoenix invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: the future where it's hot and dark Posts: 5,926	so... often times when boyshape gets home from work at about 12 am or 11pm.. I am still wanting to do my work etc. I'm more of a night owl. And he usually just wants me to come to bed. I can understand that he is tired because of the work he does. (he assistant stage manages a theatre show atm) I've tried many things to help him to become less tired.. in the way of healthy foods and a little exercise and relaxation techniques etc. But in himself he has quite ingrown unhealthy ways. I'll cook something for him for when he gets home at 11 or so, if he asks.. yet he'll still grab nasty take out on the way home!! I have no doubt that his lifestyle contributes greatly to his lethargy. He does try.. He's seeing a chiropractor and even tackled his fear of needles and has had acupuncture. I just cant do much more than be supportive, and its difficult when there are a few habbits he just cant seem to break, even though he'd feel so much better if he did. My point though is that, at the moment we live between houses. We sleep at a room at his parents house. I migrate between my moms house (where my cat lives) and his parents house.. and my work+school haha. I've been putting off moving in together for a couple reasons but one that plays on my mind is how little time we do get to spend together.. yet we're usualy tired or on different body clocks when it does happen. And I know I wont change and will NEED to feel comfortable being able to stay up late and work if I need to or want to. And not feeling like Im being a bad person just because mostly I'm less lethargic than he is. :s I suppose I get more lethargic when Im on meds, which Im not at the moment. we've potentially found a house to move in to, and its just something I really need to tackle so I feel as though there is a solution reached before we move in. sigh. __________________ tiny and lost.
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