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Originally Posted by truncated
But in all seriousness, is there some elemental part of you that enjoys rescuing proverbial damsels in distress? Some aspect of your being, however tiny or suppressed, that wants to feel needed? The radio show folk unanimously agreed that everyone wants to feel needed to a degree, and I suspect there may be some truth to that, regardless of gender.
Excepting me, of course. I am far too lazy and narcissistic to take responsibility for others.
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Where is the limit between being caring (I've been told that I am) and manipulative ? I do think that in a couple there's always at some point some sort of manipulation (or interested behaviour to be less harsh) even if both people really love each other. EDIT: I mean this can be unconscious off course.