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There's a lot of assumptions I would need to make in order to answer the first post. Is your lack of confidence coming from your appearence or behavior? Is it an identity crisis or a fear of rejection/disapproval? Both Danny and !@#$! each show an avenue. It could be something else. I would suggest you to consult a psychologist on the matter instead of a message board but, for my experience, they usually seem to ask the wrong questions. Working it out for yourself, if you are strong enough, is the best course.
I also should add that people that go through such personal, existential trials usually end up to be more aware, mentally-strong individuals. At least from what I've gathered.
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