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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
whoa,
skimming over the post is see "spanking" and "kicking someone in the nuts"
s/m is pleasure through pain, not about inflincting torture & death
you don't need the whole trekkie outfit, just a little sense of adventure.
some people get off on the pain & humiliation, some people get off on dishing it out.
the whole experience is supposed to be safe however. destroying someone's organs or psyche is NOT s/m.
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S&M stands for Sadism and Masochism; nowadays, it's extended to BDSM, which is Bondage, Domination, Sadism & Masochism. !"£$% 's right, although an excessive Sadistic impulse can lead to getting turned on by being a total bastard to someone. Generally, there's nice little codes and protocols which mean that people involved in a BDSM relationship don't ever go beyond what their partner(s) are comfortable with.
Explaining one persons pecadilloes is pretty pointless... I don't get off on feet, but an awful lot of people do. Horses for courses is the best way to deal with the whole thing.
Often, BDSM relationships are more rigorous in the thresholds, meaning that BDSM relationships are usually 'safer' than 'conventional' sexual relationships - by dint of the incredible amount of communication that goes on.
I'm not into BDSM in a big way, I'm a very low level masochist, but I don't like the idea that people put one medium of sexual expression over another... whatever floats your boat is the order of the day.
Hey, why not try getting nails hammered into your Johnson? You just might like it...