^^^This is going to be a difficult one for sure - if you feel that she is really, really interested in you, then do you think that you could approach her directly about this? There's the other thing where she might just end messing you around again, which would be really hurtful to you.
I wish I could think of something better to say to you, al shab. All I can say is I hope that everything works out well for you one way and the other, and take care of yourself in this situation
