try to clear up your mind what you wanna save from the relationship.
and if the situation allows it try to make the other one understand that there is something you dont wanna loose, like a friendship underneath the shadow of the gone wrong relationship.
if thats the case it can soften the edges of the breaking up. but you have to be honest to yourself, if its not the case then do NOT pretend just to soften the edges...that would hurt the other one more then just being honest.
I hope its clear enough what I wanted to say
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