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I handle breakups really well. I think they're fun. I've had 3 girls break up with me who years later email me or see me and say they wish they were still with me. The good thing about being a guy is that there are millions more girls out there than guys, so there's plenty of selection. Girls usually date complete morons though.
It'd be difficult if my current girlfriend and I broke up though, to be completely honest. Not because we've been together nearly 6 years but because do you know how long it's going to take to convince another girl to stick her finger in my ass?
I'm just kidding, but.......
But yeah, handling breakups is easy. You just have to realize that the person you're breaking up with is just another person. Often, people have this inferiority complex. I psyche myself out with that and with people in general, realizing that I'm not going to let anyone control my emotions because no one is better than me. Not that I'm better than anyone, either -- but there's no point getting torn up over a person or your memories with them, because you can find another equal by just going outside and having making new memories with them. Ending anything is sad to an extent to most "normal" person, I guess, but within months you'll completely forget because you'll be doing so many new and awesome things.
I'm not trying to downplay anyone's emotional, fulfilling, loving, epic relationships.. but we all are VERY young and if shit happens, it happens. Every ending is a new beginning, right?
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