Originally Posted by SuchFriendsAreDangerous

why the judgement against the brother? It is a band, and many people are deadicated fans, and love the music sincerely, and love the group sincerely, and love the members sincerely..

if Steve Shelly was in a coma would you say the same insensitive things? No, cuz you could relate, but cuz you think the deftones are shit, you've got so much things to say bout that.. but the truth is the truth.

regardless of your tastes in music, Chi Cheng is a good brother sitting in a coma, and his family for whatever reasons can not afford the bills, and so they are asking help from the thousands of people like me who absolutely love the group and Chi, and feel deeply connected and would like to contribute..

in other words, its like yo grammama said, if you aint got nothin nice to say, dun say anything at all!