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Originally Posted by phoenix
I've actually lost most of my friends in part due to my current relationship. Over the last few years I've either been discouraged from seeing some, others were sick of my partners ways and there is only so long you can hang out with someon who constantly calls yr partner a jerk, and.. he never wanted to come out with me in a group or with the people I used to see.. The times when we go out in a group with his friends.. well workmaets... I feel like I might as well not be there. I get ignored... Or try to participate in conversation without much response from him. It's as though we've come seperately all together? The worst was a birthday party where he spent most of the night out right flirting with a girl in the next seat over and not saying two words to me. It was over a year ago but ridiculous and humiliating given everything that has gone on.
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Well, judging from the words above and especially from the first sentence, I get the general idea that you need to move on relationship-wise, if you want to feel comfortable and happy again. You don't necessariliy need to switch location for that.
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Originally Posted by phoenix
He has thus far made it heart wretchingly difficult to do so, and I am a soppy, sympathetic, stupidly loyal person. Then there is the comfort zone thing. You know.
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Sympathetic, stupidly loyal enough not to be able to explain the dude what is eating you from inside and try to make him understand? You better do something about it.