Having experienced a lot of deaths in my family at a young age, one of them being my father at age 11, I've learned that people just die all the time, and life does go on for the rest of us. It's hard for me to even say if I would go back and change these things, because I'm not sure who I would be today if they were different. Death isn't a fun thing to deal with, but it's one of the many things in life that aren't fun to deal with, and if you let everyone of these things bring you down every time they happen, you are setting yourself up for a miserable life.
I know this is not at all what you are even talking about, I'm just saying, I think all thing should be handled in a lighter way than they usually are.
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