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Originally Posted by _slavo_
i'd like to be best in being a good partner/boyfriend.
which, in fact, I'm really far from being.
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I
am the best partner/boyfriend. I've been told this by every girl I've dated, and I even got an email from an ex saying that I'm
too uh... good of a boyfriend and that alienates girls that I date because girls don't want to date someone who they feel impossibly indebted to. In other words, most girls want a guy with flaws so they feel better about their own, and so they don't feel the pressure to compete... But yeah, I've never cheated, I'm always on time, I always get my women whatever they want, I will see them at 2 PM or 2 AM, in rain or snow, I will walk miles upon miles, I will risk life and death, I will ... you know. Just, everything. Even though my girlfriend and I are apparently "breaking up" soon (which, in all honesty, I think is just a temporary thing -- I'm not being delusional, I just know that when we're together, things are great... she's not faking or hiding her feelings... I think she just needs a break from me.. and maybe just needs to see what else is out there... then, she'll know), I have given her close to $500 recently, just to help her out. She didn't ask for it! She didn't expect it! She's not using me... I had to force her to take it. But, yeah, she is apparently moving far away, and there's going to be a period where she isn't working and I wanted to show her that I support her, even though I don't agree with what she's doing to me, and I definitely don't agree with this situation in general. I've done more than that, but I don't want to... yeah. Maybe I'll talk more about this after we officially "split up".
The point of this paragraph was just to say: You can be the best boyfriend ever, but a lot of girls don't want that.