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Originally Posted by ni'k
she has had to put up with this type of shit since about the time her husband died and people started accusing her of murder, so i don't judge her.
the irrational, vicious, snarling hate that goes her way is absolutely disgusting and sick. i can't help but think it's due to some fucked up sexism, wherein she acts in the same way male rockstars do and thus is punished for it. a lot of jealously and anger that kurt died and she didn't play the grieving widow role. it pisses men off, the idea of a woman moving on so quickly, the idea that she might not have been their ego idol kurts property and spend the rest of her days in solemn mourning.
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Look, I was being extremely overdramatic because I felt like it. Just the same this whole "men do the same thing" is bullshit when you're talking to me. I hate rockstars like Axl Rose who pull that bullshit MORE than I hate Courtney Love (and hate is a stupid word to use because I don't know either of them personally). I have nothing to say about Kurt's death except for the fact that the way she pimps out his memory is sick (published his private journals). You're pretty dumb, honestly, because you have no idea what you're talking about. I've argued on YOUR side of this argument many times, I think the truth lies somewhere in the middle. It is disturbing that she didn't seem to care about Kurt after he died, but who knows what her private feelings were. And I definitely think his bandmates were just as responsible for his death as she was. They were all using him as their meal/drug ticket. Then again, after Kurt's death, her actions (and music) have been nothing but shit. I think it did fuck her up mentally because she's not in touch with reality.