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Originally Posted by floatingslowly
I have no issue with other's (lack of) moral values. I just can't get beyond the non-value of paying for something that's FREE.
there's a world wide web full of tits just waiting to be looked at (at little to no cost at all). double-you-tee-efff?
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that's why some of us have said it is actually degrading for the one paying.
is he not good enough to get tits for free or what?
or perhaps he enjoys the guiltless power trip that does not involve any emotional attachment?
is he the one that is so insecure that has to pay in order to be pleased not rejected?
I used to live in an area of prostitution and brothels, and often I'd find myself drunk talking to street hookers. I have heard enough from them from woman to woman to have an opinion now.
the sad thing is, when you're a woman it is all about choices. If you'd choose to strip, for example, you might gain a certain power and some money, but you'd lose a lot of respect from people, a lot of romance from men, a certain sense of self control, and some innocence. If youŽd choose to be a career woman that demands respect and admiration, you'd win a lot of that, but you'd also have to lose some of your sexy playful sensual side in order to be taken seriously.
in general, society struggles to see women as beings that are both intelectual and sexual.