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What relevance does that have? Who in the past year or so loved her, took care of her and hung out with her? And who in the past year treated her like shit?
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It is extremely relevant and it means EVERYTHING! you need to stop comparing your position/status to the friend..
let the friend be the friend, and you be the lover. People need friends, people need keep attached to conceptions of themselves before their romantic endevours, people need a cushion they feel they can fall back on. Love hurts, and friends (even bad ones) can be quite comforting.
Again, I say stop letting that other chick get to you, in reality the green monster is coming out in you, you are a bit jealous that your chick is not listening to yr judgment, but put the shoe on the other foot, why does this friend threaten you so much? Do you think your chick likes you challenging
her judgment?Are you not comfortable enough with your chick to let it go? Trust me, the last thing your chick wants is a battle between her man and her friend, and in the end, bad friend or not, you just might lose on that one..