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Derek
This "friend" is poisonous. She is deliberately sabataging your relationship with your gf...she has total control of the situation and is loving every minute of the chaos she creates. She knows which buttons to push to get both of you upset. She is a selfish, insecure, mean-spirited bitch to do this to her friend. She has no problem manipulating the person she knows very well - your girlfriend - and shamefully pitting her against you.
You cannot win with this situation as it is now. The more you tell your gf what a twat her friend is, the more she will defend her in some way.
The only thing I can tell you is try to "kill her with kindness". Even this may not work because she already knows how you feel about her.
One other thing to try would be to get her a guy of her own. Shit, get her hooked on an online dating site or SOMETHING.
The only thing that will work is to get her mind on something more fun than torturing you two.
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