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Originally Posted by Nefeli
well, this in general makes sense.
your friends, the real ones, will be always (? -this is always for debate) by your side and its a different kind of relationship, whereas a couple 's relationship..well you dont know the other as well and as long as your friends, its common to have your heart broken and who will comfort you if you have dissed all your friends for your relationship'sake.., it is competitive at the begging..overall it needs time aswell to evolve and be pure.
how old are you guys?
when you are young and just starting, you have your friends, when you get into your first serious relationship, you get a feeling and a different view of your friends.
does this make sense, as i wrote it?
anyway, ignore this. it was slightly irrelevant.
oh man, i cant be brief!
the fact that this other girl is mean and lies its unacceptable.
you cant do much i m afraid.
say where you stand to your gf and then let it go. if you 2 start wasting your time on the 3rd part, it wont do you any good.
here. i was 2 the point. tried at least.
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Very sensible reply.
Once you laid the cards on the table, just concentrate on where you and your girlfriend are heading to. If it's something that is strong enough to allow you to trust her judgement when it comes to make a clear distinction between what you share with her and her long term friendships, then this intrusion shouldn't feel like too much of a burden. If you don't like your girlfriend's best friend for whatever reason you listed on this thread, it still shouldn't be your duty to advice her to dump her or find herself better people to hang with. In short, step back and consider their history as mates, but place the wedge firmly and in a civil manner when it puts unneccessary stress on the daily relationship with your girl.