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Originally Posted by phoenix
Is that why it is even more appealing?
Would you break up with your girlfriend if that was the only way you could get to have sex with this girl?
If yes, then break up with her and frolic naked with said new girl.
If no, then keep it in yr pants.
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I think the most appealing part is that I haven't seen "said new girl" in years. I grew up, pretty much, obsessed with her. She was my best friend, and my not-so-secret crush rolled up into one. But she didn't want to damage the friendship, and I'm sure the fact that I was just a chubby (that's putting it lightly) nerd with no fashion sense or alpha male qualities didn't help much either.
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Originally Posted by phoenix
Or discuss it with yr girlfriend? Perhaps she might want to see(fuck) other people also. Honesty.
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Hell no. I'm not willing to deal with that rage for nothin'. Call me a chicken shit, but I don't feel the need to do the time without committing the crime. Plus, I'd feel terrible knowing she wanted the same thing, or has cheated on me already. It's hypocritical, but despite my temptation...I do still love her. Maybe that's my answer.
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Originally Posted by chicka
how's that saying go, oh yeah Men are pigs and proud of it. Yes I cheated on a couple of gf. I cheated twice on my ex-wife one of them being a roughly three month affair. Did I feel guilty? Absolutely. Did I get over it? Absolutely. Did it hurt my marriage nope. She divorced me 10 years after the fact over drugs not a cheatin' heart. Did she cheat on me? I don't think so but hey you never know what goes on in a woman's heart or mind.
Other than if something better comes along they won't hesitate to go for it.
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This is pretty much what I was thinking. I know that very early on in the relationship, she let a girl finger her and came to me crying about it a week later. Feeling terrible.
Another time (when we lived in our apartment together) her phone had broken, and I let her borrow mine while I was at work. Upon arriving home, I noticed messages sent to a guy (who I only sorta knew) in my outbox, but all the replies had been deleted from the inbox.
I confronted her about it, and she explained that she didn't want me getting jealous and thinking anything was up. So she tried to delete all the messages, and just forgot about the outbox. Now, I would think that if she didn't want to raise any red flags, she would've just left all of the messages alone.
Weeks later, I find out he has a crush on her, and sometimes gets "weird" when drunk at parties we're all at. Even later, I find out that she had a thing for him when we broke up for 3 months last year. She accidentally let both details slip, the latter being something along the lines of "I can't believe I used to like him".
So I dunno, maybe I truly owe myself a treat. Maybe I'm just a jealous prick. Maybe I should stop posting so much personal shit on SYG.