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Originally Posted by chicka
Great line about Howard there Dead-Air. One question you have to ask yourself is Can You forgive your wife for the string of loosers? If you can't then I don't believe you and her will make it. It's easy to say yes cause I did too but deep down where you live can you forgiver her?
As for cheating I did. Thankfully only twice but it was without a doubt the worst guilt trip I ever had in my marriage and took quite a while to get over.
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Ah, I've already forgiven her. She's the one who gets to look back on it. I have a few things I need to be forgiven for too, so life is like that.
I believe we can learn, and if it doesn't work out, I think we can move on in a less warlike way. We've got a whole divorce agreement ready to turn in if we have to, but some of it we can live by and still be together. Honestly, if I could keep her on my healthcare at work, I'd say we should just get divorced and live together at this point, but that isn't an option unfortunately.