i read it ni'k, and im glad you posted it.
the best relationships i've ever had with boyfriends started out with really solid friendships. guys do need someone to listen to them more than girls!
when girls have girlfriends (and i am speaking from only my experience, i can't speak for anyone else) that's what I like to do. Not necessarily gossip, but talk and listen to my friends thoughts and ideas. I have friends that listen to me too; it's a two way street. But it seems like with guys (and I have many guy friends) you have to be with them one on one to have a really meaningful conversation. otherwise its all small talk.
SMALL TALK WILL DRIVE YOU FUCKING CRAZY. CRAZY ENOUGH TO FIT INTO STUPID MALE STEREOTYPES!!!!!
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