how do you react to racism? - Page 12

Rob Instigator · 06.23.2010, 04:13 PM

discourse is never a waste of time

knox · 06.23.2010, 04:13 PM

oh sonic park, i forgot to say, i read the posts, it just made it worse.

knox · 06.23.2010, 04:16 PM

but i remember reading a bashing he got in a discussion about feminism, and realised why he'd wanna avoid round two.

pbradley · 06.23.2010, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

It's funny because it assumes that I assumed that the white guy is the racist.

No, poster writer, you're the racist.

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 04:21 PM

Personally, I like to be abused... there's a time and a place for it though.

I think that discussion was when I was particularly bitter about being cheated on by every girl I've been with, especially the last girl, I spent 7 years with her, gave her more than anyone else ever has, and she cheated on me with a guy who is a shithead to her, because she said I was too good for her, and she just generally treated guys who treated her like garbage, better than me. The only way to get her to respect me was to be an asshole to her, which is totally not who I am. The best thing I did was to stop talking to her. But she owes me $200 (she actually owes me a couple thousand but we're settling at $200) so I check in with her sometimes to see if she has been able to pay me yet. Of course, she made me feel like shit our entire relationship because I never went to college. She comes from the richest family in town, went to a nice ass school, and is thousands in credit card debt. So, I mean, I "win", but what kind of victory is it?

Either way, I'm sure I was bitter for a while, but I'm with a totally sweet girl now who sees me for who I really am, respects my honest, integrity, creativity, and success. We love each other. She sometimes does get into these moods where she feels like I'm too good for her, but I have to keep reminding her that I'm no better than anyone else. She's really changed who I am as a person -- for the better. She makes me so happy. It seems like everything started going good once I got with her... my movies started being accepted to festivals, people started being interested in my music again. She has helped me realize the beauty of flowers. She's an angel.

knox · 06.23.2010, 04:39 PM

pretty but what does that have to do with anything

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 04:43 PM

Um, what?

Rob Instigator · 06.23.2010, 04:46 PM

U 2 R N LUV

Derek · 06.23.2010, 05:11 PM

Adam your old girlfriend always reminds me of my old girlfriend, sometimes I think it was the same relationship but in a parallel world. Luckily she owes me no money though.

Rob Instigator · 06.23.2010, 05:14 PM

How many people here are owed money by their Ex's?

(count me in)

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 05:16 PM

I bet I gave her $15,000 overall. Meanwhile, she always put me down for not going to school, and she let her family do the same, saying my walmart job wasn't "real" and I'd never be able to support her -- even though I'm more successful than any of my peers, and I'm a BILLION times more successful than the fatass dork she's with now...

I think at the time, I liked the abuse. Probably some kind of sexual manifestation from the genuine abuse I suffered as a child. I honestly never got anything out of that relationship, except she drove me to see Polysics once.

My girlfriend now abuses me in the bedroom only, and not in real life. I think that's much healthier..

Dr. Eugene Felikson · 06.23.2010, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

My girlfriend now abuses me in the bedroom only, and not in real life. I think that's much healthier..

What else can a guy ask for?

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 07:04 PM

nothing. she's perfect.

!@#$%! · 06.23.2010, 07:09 PM

you know something? success is not meeting other people's definition of how life should be lived, but living life in your own terms and loving what you do, so you can confidently those mirage-chasing losers to eat a bag of dicks.

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 07:10 PM

I have.

!@#$%! · 06.23.2010, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

I have.

her family too? i hope so ha ha ha haaaa

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 07:14 PM

You know what? I took vacation at work last year -- I only get one vacation a year, mind you -- to watch her parent's house while they were all in Florida. I watched her house, so that she had someone there so it wouldn't get broken into, and I saved them hundreds of dollars since they didn't have to take their dogs to the kennel. One night, at 3 AM, I saw some suspicious guys across the street eyeballing the house (no vehicles had been in front of the house in like 5 days, no lights had been on), I turned the lights on and they quickly drove off. I really think they were either doing drugs or contemplating breaking in and I prevented it.

I was promised $100 for my services -- never got a dime. Never even got a thank you. And best of all, during my 10 days staying there, that's when she was down there cheating on me. So, the $200 she owes me -- and trusts me, she owes me way more than that if we really want to break it down -- is for that, as well as another $100 because when she said she was moving to Florida, I let her sell a ton of my video games and keep half the money. She didn't keep half, she kept all the money.

!@#$%! · 06.23.2010, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

You know what? I took vacation at work last year -- I only get one vacation a year, mind you -- to watch her parent's house while they were all in Florida. I watched her house, so that she had someone there so it wouldn't get broken into, and I saved them hundreds of dollars since they didn't have to take their dogs to the kennel. One night, at 3 AM, I saw some suspicious guys across the street eyeballing the house (no vehicles had been in front of the house in like 5 days, no lights had been on), I turned the lights on and they quickly drove off. I really think they were either doing drugs or contemplating breaking in and I prevented it.

I was promised $100 for my services -- never got a dime. Never even got a thank you. And best of all, during my 10 days staying there, that's when she was down there cheating on me. So, the $200 she owes me -- and trusts me, she owes me way more than that if we really want to break it down -- is for that, as well as another $100 because when she said she was moving to Florida, I let her sell a ton of my video games and keep half the money. She didn't keep half, she kept all the money.

jeeez... what a bunch of losers!! you should bring them the bill for all their daughter owes you-- chances are they will adamantly deny you ever gave her a dime, but you can laugh your heart out while shame stings them in the face like a swarm of angry wasps.

atsonicpark · 06.23.2010, 07:22 PM

The funny thing is, I have naked pictures of her, and a video of her giving me a blowjob, that we shot right after she cheated on me, but before she revealed it to me, while the other dude officially considered her his girlfriend. So, if she doesn't pay me.. I hate to blackmail her but haha... it kinda sucks NOT being an asshole sometimes... she'll pay me..

!@#$%! · 06.23.2010, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

The funny thing is, I have naked pictures of her, and a video of her giving me a blowjob, that we shot right after she cheated on me, but before she revealed it to me, while the other dude officially considered her his girlfriend. So, if she doesn't pay me.. I hate to blackmail her but haha... it kinda sucks NOT being an asshole sometimes... she'll pay me..

she won't pay you cuz she snorts all her money. bring the bill to the parents at least for the satisfaction. "your little princess owes me $15,000"

don't commit a crime for $200-- just saying

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06.23.2010, 04:13 PM	#222
knox invito al cielo Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 5,255	oh sonic park, i forgot to say, i read the posts, it just made it worse. __________________
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06.23.2010, 04:16 PM	#223
knox invito al cielo Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 5,255	but i remember reading a bashing he got in a discussion about feminism, and realised why he'd wanna avoid round two. __________________
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06.23.2010, 04:21 PM	#225
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	Personally, I like to be abused... there's a time and a place for it though. I think that discussion was when I was particularly bitter about being cheated on by every girl I've been with, especially the last girl, I spent 7 years with her, gave her more than anyone else ever has, and she cheated on me with a guy who is a shithead to her, because she said I was too good for her, and she just generally treated guys who treated her like garbage, better than me. The only way to get her to respect me was to be an asshole to her, which is totally not who I am. The best thing I did was to stop talking to her. But she owes me $200 (she actually owes me a couple thousand but we're settling at $200) so I check in with her sometimes to see if she has been able to pay me yet. Of course, she made me feel like shit our entire relationship because I never went to college. She comes from the richest family in town, went to a nice ass school, and is thousands in credit card debt. So, I mean, I "win", but what kind of victory is it? Either way, I'm sure I was bitter for a while, but I'm with a totally sweet girl now who sees me for who I really am, respects my honest, integrity, creativity, and success. We love each other. She sometimes does get into these moods where she feels like I'm too good for her, but I have to keep reminding her that I'm no better than anyone else. She's really changed who I am as a person -- for the better. She makes me so happy. It seems like everything started going good once I got with her... my movies started being accepted to festivals, people started being interested in my music again. She has helped me realize the beauty of flowers. She's an angel.
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06.23.2010, 04:39 PM	#226
knox invito al cielo Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 5,255	pretty but what does that have to do with anything __________________
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06.23.2010, 04:43 PM	#227
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	Um, what?
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06.23.2010, 04:46 PM	#228
Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,976	U 2 R N LUV __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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06.23.2010, 05:11 PM	#229
Derek invito al cielo Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 8,095	Adam your old girlfriend always reminds me of my old girlfriend, sometimes I think it was the same relationship but in a parallel world. Luckily she owes me no money though.
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06.23.2010, 05:14 PM	#230
Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,976	How many people here are owed money by their Ex's? (count me in) __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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06.23.2010, 05:16 PM	#231
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	I bet I gave her $15,000 overall. Meanwhile, she always put me down for not going to school, and she let her family do the same, saying my walmart job wasn't "real" and I'd never be able to support her -- even though I'm more successful than any of my peers, and I'm a BILLION times more successful than the fatass dork she's with now... I think at the time, I liked the abuse. Probably some kind of sexual manifestation from the genuine abuse I suffered as a child. I honestly never got anything out of that relationship, except she drove me to see Polysics once. My girlfriend now abuses me in the bedroom only, and not in real life. I think that's much healthier..
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06.23.2010, 07:04 PM	#233
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	nothing. she's perfect.
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06.23.2010, 07:09 PM	#234
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,564	you know something? success is not meeting other people's definition of how life should be lived, but living life in your own terms and loving what you do, so you can confidently those mirage-chasing losers to eat a bag of dicks.
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06.23.2010, 07:10 PM	#235
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	I have.
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06.23.2010, 07:14 PM	#237
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	You know what? I took vacation at work last year -- I only get one vacation a year, mind you -- to watch her parent's house while they were all in Florida. I watched her house, so that she had someone there so it wouldn't get broken into, and I saved them hundreds of dollars since they didn't have to take their dogs to the kennel. One night, at 3 AM, I saw some suspicious guys across the street eyeballing the house (no vehicles had been in front of the house in like 5 days, no lights had been on), I turned the lights on and they quickly drove off. I really think they were either doing drugs or contemplating breaking in and I prevented it. I was promised $100 for my services -- never got a dime. Never even got a thank you. And best of all, during my 10 days staying there, that's when she was down there cheating on me. So, the $200 she owes me -- and trusts me, she owes me way more than that if we really want to break it down -- is for that, as well as another $100 because when she said she was moving to Florida, I let her sell a ton of my video games and keep half the money. She didn't keep half, she kept all the money.
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06.23.2010, 07:22 PM	#239
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	The funny thing is, I have naked pictures of her, and a video of her giving me a blowjob, that we shot right after she cheated on me, but before she revealed it to me, while the other dude officially considered her his girlfriend. So, if she doesn't pay me.. I hate to blackmail her but haha... it kinda sucks NOT being an asshole sometimes... she'll pay me..
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