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atari 2600 · 03.07.2008, 05:39 PM

Hmm, she's not dated for a year, so I suppose there's little chance that all this has to do with her actually being in the process of treating some sexually transmitted disease. From your account, which is brief (& forgive me if I cause you any grief), it just seems a bit like she is trying to let you down easy.

Then again, maybe she is actually thoughtful and intelligent and a modern metropolitan exemplar of chastity and purity. I suppose if that's really the case then she deserves all the time in the world.

uhler · 03.07.2008, 05:39 PM

opps, i just realized i have been spelling advice wrong. oh well.

Rob Instigator · 03.07.2008, 05:43 PM

moving to a new city is a B-EYE-ITCH, and it takes everything, especially moving to NYC

having to worry about a boyfriend is extra baggage. give her some time, and if she is still into you and you are into her, and sh wants you to move up to NYC, do so, but do NOT m,ove up there just to live with her. get yr own place at least at first, and see what it is like to date each other in NYC

uhler · 03.07.2008, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

moving to a new city is a B-EYE-ITCH, and it takes everything, especially moving to NYC

having to worry about a boyfriend is extra baggage. give her some time, and if she is still into you and you are into her, and sh wants you to move up to NYC, do so, but do NOT m,ove up there just to live with her. get yr own place at least at first, and see what it is like to date each other in NYC

yeah, i never even thought of moving in with her. that would be too much. i wanted to move up there before her, but it just happens she lives up there.

val-holla-ing · 03.07.2008, 05:59 PM

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so i went up to nyc to see this girl that i was dating. well, she was acting a little weird. after the first day she said that she's scared because she likes me a lot and doesn't want to rush things and wants to take it slow.

i'm scared that she'll lose interest in me. i like her more than i liked anyone. the hardest part is taking things slow when i live in florida and she lives in nyc. i do plan on moving up there in june, but that's still three months away. most of the people that i talked to said when the girl says that we should take things slow it's nothing good. only one person said it's great news.

anyone have any advise?

take as much time as you can. no need to rush into things. if things work out, then the two of you will have an incredible bond as your relationship progresses. if not, the chances of you two being still being friends are stronger than if you two were 'madly in luuuv' without even finding out each other's last names.

if she loses interest, oh well (sorry if that sounds harsh). you can meet five soulmates in one night on the town in new york.

val-holla-ing · 03.07.2008, 06:01 PM

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yeah, i never even thought of moving in with her. that would be too much. i wanted to move up there before her, but it just happens she lives up there.

what're you going to be doing up there? enjoying the weather?

uhler · 03.07.2008, 06:02 PM

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what're you going to be doing up there? enjoying the weather?

most of my friends from down here moved up there. i'm the only one left in florida out of my group of friend

!@#$%! · 03.07.2008, 06:44 PM

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most of my friends from down here moved up there. i'm the only one left in florida out of my group of friend

GET THE FUCK OUT OF FLORIDA RIGHT NOW.

that's a geriatric state.

pbradley · 03.07.2008, 06:51 PM

I wish I could find a chick that would take things chill.

uhler · 03.07.2008, 07:09 PM

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GET THE FUCK OUT OF FLORIDA RIGHT NOW.

that's a geriatric state.

it really is. i mean some places are cool, like gainesville and st. petersburg, but most of the state is redneck shit.

!@#$%! · 03.07.2008, 07:35 PM

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it really is. i mean some places are cool, like gainesville and st. petersburg, but most of the state is redneck shit.

YEAH.

& listen to me. im the king of long distance relationships, ha ha ha ha.

Glice · 03.08.2008, 02:14 PM

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opps, i just realized i have been spelling advice wrong. oh well.

I pointed that out ages ago. You can't ask for 'advise' and then not listen, that's just shocking behaviour.

Crumb's Crunchy Delights · 03.08.2008, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by atari 2600

...it just seems a bit like she is trying to let you down easy...

or: wake up & smell the freakin roses

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atari 2600 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,212	Hmm, she's not dated for a year, so I suppose there's little chance that all this has to do with her actually being in the process of treating some sexually transmitted disease. From your account, which is brief (& forgive me if I cause you any grief), it just seems a bit like she is trying to let you down easy. Then again, maybe she is actually thoughtful and intelligent and a modern metropolitan exemplar of chastity and purity. I suppose if that's really the case then she deserves all the time in the world.
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uhler invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Brooklyn Posts: 3,615	opps, i just realized i have been spelling advice wrong. oh well.
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Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,976	moving to a new city is a B-EYE-ITCH, and it takes everything, especially moving to NYC having to worry about a boyfriend is extra baggage. give her some time, and if she is still into you and you are into her, and sh wants you to move up to NYC, do so, but do NOT m,ove up there just to live with her. get yr own place at least at first, and see what it is like to date each other in NYC __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	I wish I could find a chick that would take things chill.
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