[porkmarras]

Originally Posted by Glice

Actually, I don't like football, I like to dress nice (but not too decadently) and I often shower. I like gay music. In a lot of ways, I'm incredibly gay, except I don't actually want to put my willy near other people's willies. Fallen at the last hurdle.

Luckily, I have lots of gay friends, and am somewhat adept at picking up hags.

Metrobiheterosexual then?Go on,keep me going honey.

[Glice]

Yes. I also have old man tendencies - I like real ale, bad jokes (as if that wasn't utterly apparent from my general posting tendencies), moaning, and ocassional lapses into letching at the 'Mmm...isn't that a little...wrong?' types.

[porkmarras]

Ok you are Biintrosexual then.There aren't many in the world but every now and then you can spot one.Have you ever met someone with the same sexual tendencies as you before?

[Glice]

Originally Posted by porkmarras

Ok you are Biintrosexual then.There aren't many in the world but every now and then you can spot one.Have you ever met someone with the same sexual tendencies as you before?

I have. Not many of them stay out of bird for very long.

[porkmarras]

Originally Posted by Glice

I have. Not many of them stay out of bird for very long.

Are there any,like,bars and such things for you people?

[Glice]

Originally Posted by porkmarras

Are there any,like,bars and such things for you people?

Not many bars, plenty of internet forums...

[Now there's a damning indictment.]

[gmku]

I'm kinda like you, Glice. I hate football, in fact. And I feel the need for a shower if I break even a little sweat. I also like real ale, I invest a little money in my wardrobe (not huge amounts but enough to look presentable) and I get accused of making lame jokes all the time.

And I know that wearing a T-shirt or polo tucked is just, well, wrong.

I think I must also be biintrosexual, whatever the hell that means.

[porkmarras]

Originally Posted by Glice

Not many bars, plenty of internet forums...

[Now there's a damning indictment.]

Aw that doesn't look good for you folks,does it?Where's carnality left to flourish then?Cable sockets?

[Glice]

Originally Posted by gmku

I'm kinda like you, Glice. I hate football, in fact. And I feel the need for a shower if I break even a little sweat. I also like real ale, I invest a little money in my wardrobe (not huge amounts but enough to look presentable) and I get accused of making lame jokes all the time.

And I know that wearing a T-shirt or polo tucked is just, well, wrong.

I think I must also be biintrosexual, whatever the hell that means.

Haha. No offence, but I'm not even legitimately an old man though. On the other hand, I know I'm going to be one of those cuntish Dads who listens to complete rubbish and is generally quite loathsome and utterly convinced that I am right. So I think you win overall.

[Glice]

Originally Posted by porkmarras

Aw that doesn't look good for you folks,does it?Where's carnality left to flourish then?Cable sockets?

Carnality is a wilted rose, left skeletal and bony, in a dusty summerhouse window.

[gmku]

Originally Posted by Glice

Haha. No offence, but I'm not even legitimately an old man though.

No offence taken--becuz neither am I!

(Is de Nile a river in Africa?)

[sonicl]

Originally Posted by Glice

Carnality is a wilted rose, left skeletal and bony, in a dusty summerhouse window.

Sounds a bit painful to me.

[Пятхъдесят Шест]

If I was gay, and in the closet, I would totally come out in this thread.

[choc e-Claire]

I'm doing my gay duties for SYG.

I'm also getting mad at this comment from 2006. Sorry.

Originally Posted by golden child

at least i dont pretend like i have a cunt.

[d.sound]

GAAAAAAAAYYYYYY

I miss my ex. I want that homo euphoria.

[!@#$%!]

Originally Posted by choc e-Claire

I'm doing my gay duties for SYG.

I'm also getting mad at this comment from 2006. Sorry.

Originally Posted by d.sound

GAAAAAAAAYYYYYY

I miss my ex. I want that homo euphoria.

respectfully trying to ask, because where else would i without getting crucified? twitter? lmao. this is a safe space when tesla is not around.

so, my question: aren't gay and trans actually NOT the same thing? if so i'm confused by your and chocky's statements.

actually, i don't know where chocky stands these days. i don't think she does.

anyway i claim no claims, i'm only asking please help me understand. i'm superfucking ignorant and would like to be less of a dunce.

thanks in advance, friends. and forgive any involuntary foot in mouth disease. thanks!

[d.sound]

I can only speak for myself. As a transgender woman who is mostly attracted to other women, cis or trans, I'd categorize myself as lesbian/gay. I might be a percent bi though. I wouldn't completely rule out dating trans men or non binary. About 0.1% of cis men are cute if they are effeminate enough, but I don't see myself dating one.

[!@#$%!]

oooh... i see

but wouldn’t the fluidity be more “queer” than “gay” proper?

i tend to think of gay as a more of “cis men attracted to cis men”, and lesbians same deal, but that’s from a time when things were more, i don’t know—stereotyped?

anyway, i like how language has to develop to catch up with reality. thanks for the answers.

[d.sound]

I don't understand what queer is honestly! I'm 37 myself and queer was an offensive slur for most of my life. I associate the word with being shoved into a mud puddle in middle school.

A cis woman i had a crush on declared herself queer on facebook on coming out day. I asked her about it. Turned out she had only ever dated cis men. She was open to dating cis/trans women but was used to the male dynamic. A few months later she started dating a cis guy...

[!@#$%!]

damn... i'm so sorry about the abuse. uffff...

but i thought that queer had long been reconquered from slur status? been hearing it uttered proudly since at least the 90s. the Q in LGBTQ. no?

ah, shit, such a minefield... this is precisely why i have to ask. im sorry if it was offensive to you.

acquaintances: i know this married couple: a trans woman and a trans man. she calls herself queer, and they call themselves a "heterosexual" couple, but like that, with the quotation marks, know what i mean?

anyway i haven't asked them, but i think if i called them a straight couple they might take it as an insult, as an erasure of their identities or something? anyway, they're very cool people, and smart as fuck.