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Serious dealbreakers:

Politics
Religion
Kids or no kids
Croc shoes

I could deal with it but I'd make a strong push towards better stuff. Sometimes people listen to stuff that's fun like 2 Live Crew or The Splack Pack maybe even some Poison Clan but, in my house no, in a club, yes...

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone

Serious dealbreakers:

Politics
Religion
Kids or no kids
Croc shoes

Top or bottom
drugs or no drugs

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Originally Posted by Glice

I also find the problem of my massive cock can prove difficult for some, but I doubt you all have the same problem.

hahaha

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Originally Posted by Glice

Anyway, it's politics that is the real test of a relationship, I find. I also find the problem of my massive cock can prove difficult for some, but I doubt you all have the same problem.

It's generally why the men with the loose asses flock to me.

I would wager there's a different reason why the cavernous-assed should 'flock' to you.

Because of my great fisting skills of course.

Do you know, I don't believe anyone has ever started a thread about fisting on this forum. Madness.

It's nice to know where we collectively draw the line.

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Originally Posted by Glice

Do you know, I don't believe anyone has ever started a thread about fisting on this forum. Madness.

That is utter madness. It's one of my favorite past times.

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Originally Posted by _slavo_

*counts seconds*

The world turns with a chilling inevitablity, doesn't it?

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Originally Posted by Glice

The world turns with a chilling inevitablity, doesn't it?

tick tock, yes indeed. which reminds me I should be gone to bed and dreaming about RZA now.

hahaha, awesome.

on topic: i don't know, i like so much stuff that there's bound to be some middle ground. i've had significant people in my life who hated sy, black flag and the boredoms.

it's weird how so many people can dumb down relationships to petty shit.

Yes. Case in point: I love myself to death and I think most of what I listen to is utter unadulturated crap.

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Originally Posted by batreleaser

a different version of the "could you love someone who does not love sonic youth" thread, that I though was ridiculous, of course its possible to love someone who has a different opinion concerning ONE band. but could you love a person who refuses to listen to anything beyond the radio? i once though that it was impossible, but i have met someone that has radically changed my opinion. in high school, i dated the same girl for three years, and she had decent in music, not great, but she also loved to party, liked that i plkayed guitar and skateboarded, and she was the first girl i loved. i then went of to college, needless to say it didnt work out, it sucked, i got depressed, all the normal bullshit. from then on i dated three different girls. first one i met at an animal collective show, she had great taste in music, we dated for about a month, and i found that all we did was argue needlessley about music and pop culture, and it was boring and irriating dating a girl with the exact same interests as me. i then met a girl through a friend, and we bonded over drugs and ornette coleman. she was absolutley stunningly beautiful, but obviously we ended up getting too fucked up on drugs and after two months i couldnt stand her. the third girl isnt worth mentioning but she also had great taste in music. but currently, i am dating a girl who doesnt like or care about good music at all, is extremly preppy, doesnt read much more than romance novels, and shes in a fucking SORORITY. and yknow what, im completley in love with her. her bitchy sorority friends all give her shit for dating some "werid sketchy dude who wears ripped jeans and has headphones on all the time", and she tells them to fuck off. that my friends, is charachter. moral of the story, there is so much more to relationships than taste in music and pop culture, and its pointless to go around looking around for a girlfriend/boyfriend who digs the boredoms. do people agree with me or do i just sound like a sappy deuche?

I could not fall in love with someone who did not at least have some kind of sympathy for roots reggae music, because it plays such an integral part of my life, right down to being a part of a roots reggae band. It is the music of the Rastafari people, and if you cant at least tap yr foot, I probably wont be able to get along well with you. however, this not usually a problem, as reggae is a rather universal music.

Of course, I love music, but I don't care if my significant likes it as much. Anyways I like to much commercial shit to begin with, so I will always have a common ground with people.

my gf and i came from the same scene (hardcore/emo/indie scene that is long gone), so we knew each other years before we dated (she didn't really like me at all, but i was an asshole to her, long story). but we met again when i was nyc and we bonded over the boredoms, rush and the movie i'm not there. she's not the biggest sonic youth or black flag or minor threat fan, but that's okay. she also loves fleetwood mac. so we do have some differences in pop culture. i guess i'm trying to say that it's best to have some commonground, at least for me it is. i tried dating a girl (like i mentioned before) who was vastly different than me and liked only stuff on the radio and popular movies and stupid tv shows and i couldn't stand her after a bit. anyway, most "regular" girls find me a little weird to try to hook up with me.