So how young is too young?
 

This 17-year-old girl just started working where I work, and she's kind of attractive...I'm 24 so I don't think I should get involved with her or anything like that, but I have to say I really care about her-like tonight she said she had a headache and asked me if I had any asprin, and I told her I didn't, but I thought we might have had some in the store, but it turned out we didn't...since I got off work earlier than her, I thought about maybe stopping by the store and picking her up some asprin, but I decided not to becuz I didn't want to give her the wrong idea. I dunno, I get mixed signals from her; two other guys working there think we're flirting...did I make the right decision there? Should I get involved with her even if she's 7 years younger than me? Have any of you been in similar situtations?

It's fine if she's legal.

Sticky situation. Just count the days until her 18th birthday

Technically she is legal in this state (age of consent is 16), but I'm kinda looking beyond that...

Follow your heart.

i mean as long as she isn't creeped out about the fact of dating a guy 7 years older than her, and if you're sure she flirts back then go for it.

As a philosopher of love (call me the love doctor) I say: "Many people, me included, say age is just a number. Maybe give it some time, see if you like her in a week and know her better...?" (I know nothing, though.)

As a person i say: go for it dude.


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i've always dated younger women

use the word fuck
the word is LOVE

imho, don't just flirt, pick things seriously.
and go for it, trust me. it's gonna work.

Believe it or not, my girlfriend at this very moment is ONE YEAR younger than I! What a coincidence, hey!

My last girlfriend was 10 years younger.

my last boyfriend was 1 month younger
hahah
sorry jsut htought i should add

I don't know that we "flirt", but we have had some pretty spirited conversations...although one time she said she could kiss me for putting a tower fan (best fan ever) by our registers when the AC broke down...I chalk that one up to her being young (I didn't put it there anyway)

i mean if it doesn'work out as relationship it seems as though you two would make good friends you know
and that's lways nice and can always lead to more

follow your conscience

daycare i wouldn't be surprised if the next thing you said was "follow the leader"

why? it's obvious he's not following his heart. if he's not following his conscience, then what is left? I don't think he will pursue the girl.

well then..

well then...what?

nothing actually .. how are you

Well, if you seriously intrested in her, I wouldn't reccomend you jump into her pants first chance you get anyways. Ask her out, see if she's into you. Date her, you don't have to get phyiscal right away. If you have more then a phyiscal attraction towards her, you can wait, and perhaps for her 18th birthday, both of you will be getting a present. Good luck.

you don't really care how I am

wow we are pissy today aren't we?

that depends on whether I'm right

man i can't even understand you.

i know...join the club.

i'll go kill myself.

that's a silly thing to do.

the last girl i had sex with was 2 years older than me.

I Am Not 28.

you aren't the last person i had sex with either

Who knows? It could be the answer to my problems.

You probably wouldn't even know if I did it...and you wouldn't care if I suddenly disappeared from here.

Nor would anyone else.

But suicide doesn't solve anything, right?

you're a little backstabbing bitch!

no i'm pretty sure suicide solves shit. but it's a selfish thing to do. i mena come on man.

i probably wouldn't care because i don't even know you, and you could be a compeltely different poerson then on this board. but i think it's pretty pathetic to be moping about suicicde on the internet. even if you are only joking

we've never had sex!

that's what you think.

and what do you know that i don't?

I wondered what would happen to this thread once Toliets and Bowels and Cantankerous jumped in...

the internet is the only place to mope about suicide. it's the last refuge for people who have no one else who cares about them.

we all like to think people care about us, but they don't really.

the question is, do you want to live?

yes,. but not til i'm old because nobody likes them. and they seem miserable.

but i mean it's normal for you to cotemplate suicide at some point in your life. but you will look back upon it and find that you were silly.

I think everybody's thought of killing themselves at some point it their life, just like I think everone's questioned their sexuality at one point or another.

Maybe there's a relation?