So how young is too young?

GeneticKiss · 08.28.2006, 09:46 PM

This 17-year-old girl just started working where I work, and she's kind of attractive...I'm 24 so I don't think I should get involved with her or anything like that, but I have to say I really care about her-like tonight she said she had a headache and asked me if I had any asprin, and I told her I didn't, but I thought we might have had some in the store, but it turned out we didn't...since I got off work earlier than her, I thought about maybe stopping by the store and picking her up some asprin, but I decided not to becuz I didn't want to give her the wrong idea. I dunno, I get mixed signals from her; two other guys working there think we're flirting...did I make the right decision there? Should I get involved with her even if she's 7 years younger than me? Have any of you been in similar situtations?

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 09:48 PM

It's fine if she's legal.

finding nobody · 08.28.2006, 09:48 PM

Sticky situation. Just count the days until her 18th birthday

GeneticKiss · 08.28.2006, 09:50 PM

Technically she is legal in this state (age of consent is 16), but I'm kinda looking beyond that...

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 09:52 PM

Follow your heart.

touch me i'm sick · 08.28.2006, 09:53 PM

i mean as long as she isn't creeped out about the fact of dating a guy 7 years older than her, and if you're sure she flirts back then go for it.

k-krack · 08.28.2006, 09:54 PM

As a philosopher of love (call me the love doctor) I say: "Many people, me included, say age is just a number. Maybe give it some time, see if you like her in a week and know her better...?" (I know nothing, though.)

As a person i say: go for it dude.

TOUUUUCHHHH MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! WELCOME BACK, BABE!

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 09:54 PM

i've always dated younger women

max · 08.28.2006, 09:54 PM

use the word fuck
the word is LOVE

imho, don't just flirt, pick things seriously.
and go for it, trust me. it's gonna work.

k-krack · 08.28.2006, 09:56 PM

Believe it or not, my girlfriend at this very moment is ONE YEAR younger than I! What a coincidence, hey!

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 09:58 PM

My last girlfriend was 10 years younger.

touch me i'm sick · 08.28.2006, 09:58 PM

my last boyfriend was 1 month younger
hahah
sorry jsut htought i should add

GeneticKiss · 08.28.2006, 09:59 PM

I don't know that we "flirt", but we have had some pretty spirited conversations...although one time she said she could kiss me for putting a tower fan (best fan ever) by our registers when the AC broke down...I chalk that one up to her being young (I didn't put it there anyway)

touch me i'm sick · 08.28.2006, 10:01 PM

i mean if it doesn'work out as relationship it seems as though you two would make good friends you know
and that's lways nice and can always lead to more

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 10:02 PM

follow your conscience

touch me i'm sick · 08.28.2006, 10:04 PM

daycare i wouldn't be surprised if the next thing you said was "follow the leader"

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 10:11 PM

why? it's obvious he's not following his heart. if he's not following his conscience, then what is left? I don't think he will pursue the girl.

touch me i'm sick · 08.28.2006, 10:12 PM

well then..

Daycare Nation · 08.28.2006, 10:14 PM

well then...what?

touch me i'm sick · 08.28.2006, 10:14 PM

nothing actually .. how are you

08.28.2006, 09:46 PM	#1
GeneticKiss expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 1,666	This 17-year-old girl just started working where I work, and she's kind of attractive...I'm 24 so I don't think I should get involved with her or anything like that, but I have to say I really care about her-like tonight she said she had a headache and asked me if I had any asprin, and I told her I didn't, but I thought we might have had some in the store, but it turned out we didn't...since I got off work earlier than her, I thought about maybe stopping by the store and picking her up some asprin, but I decided not to becuz I didn't want to give her the wrong idea. I dunno, I get mixed signals from her; two other guys working there think we're flirting...did I make the right decision there? Should I get involved with her even if she's 7 years younger than me? Have any of you been in similar situtations?
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08.28.2006, 09:48 PM	#2
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	It's fine if she's legal. __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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08.28.2006, 09:48 PM	#3
finding nobody invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 7,275	Sticky situation. Just count the days until her 18th birthday
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08.28.2006, 09:50 PM	#4
GeneticKiss expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 1,666	Technically she is legal in this state (age of consent is 16), but I'm kinda looking beyond that...
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08.28.2006, 09:52 PM	#5
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	Follow your heart. __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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08.28.2006, 09:53 PM	#6
touch me i'm sick expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,936	i mean as long as she isn't creeped out about the fact of dating a guy 7 years older than her, and if you're sure she flirts back then go for it.
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08.28.2006, 09:54 PM	#7
k-krack invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: On Posts: 7,380	As a philosopher of love (call me the love doctor) I say: "Many people, me included, say age is just a number. Maybe give it some time, see if you like her in a week and know her better...?" (I know nothing, though.) As a person i say: go for it dude. TOUUUUCHHHH MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! WELCOME BACK, BABE! __________________ sandwich klub 4 men. Danny is a C.H.U.D.
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08.28.2006, 09:54 PM	#8
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	i've always dated younger women __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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08.28.2006, 09:54 PM	#9
max expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: sardinia, italy Posts: 1,263	use the word fuck the word is LOVE imho, don't just flirt, pick things seriously. and go for it, trust me. it's gonna work. __________________ A Dance Of Shadows - Kingdom Of Night
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08.28.2006, 09:56 PM	#10
k-krack invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: On Posts: 7,380	Believe it or not, my girlfriend at this very moment is ONE YEAR younger than I! What a coincidence, hey! __________________ sandwich klub 4 men. Danny is a C.H.U.D.
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08.28.2006, 09:58 PM	#11
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	My last girlfriend was 10 years younger. __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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08.28.2006, 09:59 PM	#13
GeneticKiss expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 1,666	I don't know that we "flirt", but we have had some pretty spirited conversations...although one time she said she could kiss me for putting a tower fan (best fan ever) by our registers when the AC broke down...I chalk that one up to her being young (I didn't put it there anyway)
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08.28.2006, 10:01 PM	#14
touch me i'm sick expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,936	i mean if it doesn'work out as relationship it seems as though you two would make good friends you know and that's lways nice and can always lead to more
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08.28.2006, 10:02 PM	#15
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	follow your conscience __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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08.28.2006, 10:04 PM	#16
touch me i'm sick expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,936	daycare i wouldn't be surprised if the next thing you said was "follow the leader"
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08.28.2006, 10:11 PM	#17
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	why? it's obvious he's not following his heart. if he's not following his conscience, then what is left? I don't think he will pursue the girl. __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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08.28.2006, 10:12 PM	#18
touch me i'm sick expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,936	well then..
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08.28.2006, 10:14 PM	#19
Daycare Nation expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,904	well then...what? __________________ That dragon ain't the love sweet love.
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