spasmless orgasm - Page 3

chicka · 08.13.2010, 11:32 AM

How about a diver with either a finger or a dildo anally.

!@#$%! · 08.13.2010, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by alteredcourse

But I'm a girl!

I've researched on the internet here and there ploesj, and nothing too helpful ever comes up. There are rumblings of an as yet unnamed orgasm disorder or sexual anhedonia, but no real information offered.

Yeah, its frustrating as hell! We're talking a few YEARS here, so I feel like I've approached it in every way possible (relaxing, not caring if I cum, new vibrators).

Sometimes I think I should try new partners and find deeper levels of sexual pleasure with them, I know I hadnt came with another person before all this, but maybe that would just be good for me...

this may sound bizarre to you, but if this is not psychological (it could be, who knows), you might have low testosterone. men and women have both estrogen and testosterone, and women with low testosterone have problems getting off-- i'm not joking.

why not go to a doctor & get checked? they could do a blood test to check your various hormone levels, blood sugar, liver & kidney function, etc.

we're highly unqualified to do this...

Rob Instigator · 08.13.2010, 11:39 AM

too true on the severe lack of qualifications for SYG to discuss this!

any doctors in the house?

!@#$%! · 08.13.2010, 11:44 AM

every woman should have a gynecologist they trust. just saying.

Satan · 08.13.2010, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

this may sound bizarre to you, but if this is not psychological (it could be, who knows), you might have low testosterone. men and women have both estrogen and testosterone, and women with low testosterone have problems getting off-- i'm not joking.

why not go to a doctor & get checked? they could do a blood test to check your various hormone levels, blood sugar, liver & kidney function, etc.

we're highly unqualified to do this...

i think i have some extra testosterone.....

SuchFriendsAreDangerous · 08.13.2010, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by amerikangod

And therein lies your problem. If you focus on it, if you desperately try to will it, it is guaranteed to never happen.

exactly. its like dropping acid, you can't spend the first 45 minutes anticipating, desiring for and even imagining the trip, you just have to let shit hit you, and BAM .

in a related note I have only had a similar problem once, but it was not quite a feelingless orgasm as much as I honestly and openly was taking so damned long after over an hour I was desperately thinking about faking it? But how do you fake it as a guy? There is no way.. so I just balked, and took the shit or get off the pot attitude about it, so I had to just split.

I am surprised that amerikangod is the only dude who jumped in this thread, as it got ALL our regular ladies attention..

!@#$%! · 08.13.2010, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Satan

i think i have some extra testosterone.....

yeah, i saw those pics of you with a huge tache

ha!

but yes, levels vary. too high and you can always make a living as a drag performer, but too low and life is just no fun.

ploesj · 08.13.2010, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by EVOLghost

years?! hire a male prostitute and have him ram the fuck outta you. if that doesn't work....then I have no idea.

i hope you're not serious.

i kind of know you're joking, but if you're not... wow.

knox · 08.13.2010, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by EVOLghost

is this what you think about when you don't have a real orgasm?

no
but i gotta blame something

EVOLghost · 08.13.2010, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ploesj

i hope you're not serious.

i kind of know you're joking, but if you're not... wow.

Oh...I'm not serious....I can't be serious in a topic which I really have no knowledge about.

ploesj · 08.13.2010, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by EVOLghost

Oh...I'm not serious....I can't be serious in a topic which I really have no knowledge about.

good. phew!

Rob Instigator · 08.13.2010, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by knox

no
but i gotta blame something

see? knoxxy is HILARIOUS!

I love the dry wit.

alteredcourse · 08.13.2010, 02:00 PM

It feels so good that so many came to try to help. Thank you guys!!! When does the orgy begin?

*^%#, actually I'm fully aware of the possibility to have low testosterone, and have been trying to use cacao and maca to try to balance that out, (maca is a peruvian herb known to balance the endocrine system), but it might be too soon to tell.

I guess I'll see my doctor about it. I'm bummed that this wasnt more common of a problem, but I had to give it a shot. I've tried to tell myself that it just wasnt all that important "in life", but guess what? I've decided it is. I want to get fucked and feel good.

If anything good is to come out of this thread, I will see a doctor, you will all find a/your partners and have such exploding tripped out orgasms that you soak the room wet.

the original pincho · 08.13.2010, 06:23 PM

I think so.It seems it is always changing, the quality or whatever.

space · 08.13.2010, 07:34 PM

I can't believe after all these years, some people (ahem, Rob) still think that alteredcourse is a guy).

alteredcourse · 08.14.2010, 02:24 AM

I got some great advice today!

Amerikangod, are you down for giving me at least 20 mins of body pleasure and wrapping me in sexual energy before laying the meat into the grinder ? (sorry, sticking to the first image that came to mind. please dont go.)

I've decided to vacation myself northwards and have a sexual vision quest. As I've been coached by a trusted comrade, "Imma hit that."

SpaceCadetHayden · 08.14.2010, 02:30 AM

This happened to me for the first time last night and was slightly worrisome

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This morning I was redeemed, though. Probably drug-related or something.

SpaceCadetHayden · 08.14.2010, 02:35 AM

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Originally Posted by alteredcourse

It feels so good that so many came to try to help. Thank you guys!!! When does the orgy begin?

*^%#, actually I'm fully aware of the possibility to have low testosterone, and have been trying to use cacao and maca to try to balance that out, (maca is a peruvian herb known to balance the endocrine system), but it might be too soon to tell.

I guess I'll see my doctor about it. I'm bummed that this wasnt more common of a problem, but I had to give it a shot. I've tried to tell myself that it just wasnt all that important "in life", but guess what? I've decided it is. I want to get fucked and feel good.

If anything good is to come out of this thread, I will see a doctor, you will all find a/your partners and have such exploding tripped out orgasms that you soak the room wet.

Weed or being the catcher after a long streak of pitching helps for me.

Diphenydramine(benadryl, Unisom gelcaps) is also said to increase orgasm at standard anti-histamine or sleep doses.

Good luck. An orgasm is not something to go without.

alteredcourse · 08.14.2010, 02:39 AM

Noooo cant do weed. Issues. Thanks though!

Hmmm...I'll give them diphenydramine a shot though. I love chemicals.

An orgasm really isnt something to go without, is it ? I feel like I have to make up for years of build up.

deflinus · 08.14.2010, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by alteredcourse

It feels so good that so many came to try to help. Thank you guys!!! When does the orgy begin?

i'm waiting for the invitation. come on guys

08.13.2010, 11:32 AM	#41
chicka expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: wormtown MA Posts: 1,549	How about a diver with either a finger or a dildo anally. __________________ some men just want to watch the world burn
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08.13.2010, 11:39 AM	#43
Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,959	too true on the severe lack of qualifications for SYG to discuss this! any doctors in the house? __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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08.13.2010, 11:44 AM	#44
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,546	every woman should have a gynecologist they trust. just saying.
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08.13.2010, 02:00 PM	#53
alteredcourse expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,503	It feels so good that so many came to try to help. Thank you guys!!! When does the orgy begin? *^%#, actually I'm fully aware of the possibility to have low testosterone, and have been trying to use cacao and maca to try to balance that out, (maca is a peruvian herb known to balance the endocrine system), but it might be too soon to tell. I guess I'll see my doctor about it. I'm bummed that this wasnt more common of a problem, but I had to give it a shot. I've tried to tell myself that it just wasnt all that important "in life", but guess what? I've decided it is. I want to get fucked and feel good. If anything good is to come out of this thread, I will see a doctor, you will all find a/your partners and have such exploding tripped out orgasms that you soak the room wet.
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08.13.2010, 06:23 PM	#54
the original pincho little trouble girl Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 62	I think so.It seems it is always changing, the quality or whatever.
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08.13.2010, 07:34 PM	#55
space expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 1,553	I can't believe after all these years, some people (ahem, Rob) still think that alteredcourse is a guy).
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08.14.2010, 02:24 AM	#56
alteredcourse expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,503	I got some great advice today! Amerikangod, are you down for giving me at least 20 mins of body pleasure and wrapping me in sexual energy before laying the meat into the grinder ? (sorry, sticking to the first image that came to mind. please dont go.) I've decided to vacation myself northwards and have a sexual vision quest. As I've been coached by a trusted comrade, "Imma hit that."
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08.14.2010, 02:30 AM	#57
SpaceCadetHayden the end of the ugly Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: the void of civilization Posts: 988	This happened to me for the first time last night and was slightly worrisome. This morning I was redeemed, though. Probably drug-related or something. __________________
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08.14.2010, 02:39 AM	#59
alteredcourse expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,503	Noooo cant do weed. Issues. Thanks though! Hmmm...I'll give them diphenydramine a shot though. I love chemicals. An orgasm really isnt something to go without, is it ? I feel like I have to make up for years of build up.
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