The official "Help ZEROpumpkins with his lame girl problems" thread

ZEROpumpkins · 10.12.2008, 04:34 AM

Right I know you guys have much more important shit to do, so I'll keep it short (and in point form)

Drunk on weekend
Hung out with awesome girl @ party the whole night
Nothing happened (friend walked in while on couch), but got her number and myspace
Myspace is private, need last name to add
SMS'd her my email, was low on credit so dunno if she got it

What do I do now? Should I assume the worst that she got my sms and didn't want to add me to msn?
Rep to helpers.

pbradley · 10.12.2008, 04:42 AM

Why don't you just call her, you know, with your actual voice over the phone. Ask her what her last name is for the myspace (hopefully she'll think it is cute that you cared to call "personally"). And then give her an open ended invitation to whatever shindig is going on next weekend. Ball is in her court.

Who gives a fuck about myspace? Just use it as an excuse to talk to her and/or see her again some time.

phoenix · 10.12.2008, 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by ZEROpumpkins

Right I know you guys have much more important shit to do, so I'll keep it short (and in point form)

Drunk on weekend
Hung out with awesome girl @ party the whole night
Nothing happened (friend walked in while on couch), but got her number and myspace
Myspace is private, need last name to add
SMS'd her my email, was low on credit so dunno if she got it

What do I do now? Should I assume the worst that she got my sms and didn't want to add me to msn?
Rep to helpers.

Do youmean last weekend, or yesterday?

if it was yesterday, give it some time

if it was last weekend, just call her. She evidently tried to give you two forms of contact, she might have just been too drunk to realise that her stuff is set to private.

silly.

greedrex · 10.12.2008, 04:50 AM

you should call her and ask her of she likes sex.
if she answers "yes", GO FORTH AND THRASH!
if she answers "no", ask again but insert "please" at the end of the question.
Girls like polite dudes , you'll see.

ZEROpumpkins · 10.12.2008, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by pbradley

Why don't you just call her, you know, with your actual voice over the phone. Ask her what her last name is for the myspace (hopefully she'll think it is cute that you cared to call "personally"). And then give her an open ended invitation to whatever shindig is going on next weekend. Ball is in her court.

Who gives a fuck about myspace? Just use it as an excuse to talk to her and/or see her again some time.

Yeah well I'm a bit socially..uhh....shy, i guess, so I was more so using myspace as a more casual way of getting in touch with her, eventually (and hopefully) leading to something more awesome. You don't think she'll find it a bit odd if I call her? We're not adults or anything.

Danny Himself · 10.12.2008, 04:52 AM

Drunk girls are lame. That's the real problem.

greedrex · 10.12.2008, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by ZEROpumpkins

You don't think she'll find it a bit odd if I call her? We're not adults or anything.

who gives a fuck??? Phones are not designed for "adults" only, are they?
Be straightforward.
girls like polite staightforward dudes, you'll see.

If she doesn't remember you, then fair enough.

pbradley · 10.12.2008, 04:58 AM

Well if she frightens you, why are you interested in her? Might as well just do nothing if you don't want to talk to her or meet her or anything. What's worse than acting like you care too much is acting like you care less than you actually do.

ZEROpumpkins · 10.12.2008, 05:01 AM

No I care heaps, I'm worried that I'll come on too strong, that's the problem.

pbradley · 10.12.2008, 05:09 AM

Well coming off as too weak isn't going to solve this. A phone call is perfect. If you need an excuse for yourself, think of it as though you are just calling to make plans for next weekend.

Call on wednesday. Mention the party and how you got her myspace but not her name. When she tells you, repeat her name back to her in full. And then also ask if she knows of anything going on next weekend. She probably won't, so mention that you will call her if you hear of anything on your end. Say goodbye, hang up.

Keep a casual tone and you won't be coming off as strong. Make yourself a drink if you need to calm your nerves.

Trasher02 · 10.12.2008, 05:12 AM

Get some credit for your cell phone and just text her again.

terriblecanyons · 10.12.2008, 05:13 AM

Call her.
Talk to her.

Keep in mind this advice is coming from an actual girl.

Danny Himself · 10.12.2008, 05:20 AM

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Originally Posted by terriblecanyons

Keep in mind this advice is coming from an actual girl.

greedrex · 10.12.2008, 05:21 AM

^^yes.

TC, yr location is kinda frightening.

10.12.2008, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by ZEROpumpkins

Yeah well I'm a bit socially..uhh....shy, i guess, so I was more so using myspace as a more casual way of getting in touch with her, eventually (and hopefully) leading to something more awesome. You don't think she'll find it a bit odd if I call her? We're not adults or anything.

I would be rather odd if you chit chat over myspace all the time. its kinda strange if you see her the next time and you talk the "normal" way. it will be different of course

10.12.2008, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by ZEROpumpkins

No I care heaps, I'm worried that I'll come on too strong, that's the problem.

when did it happen? the night I mean?
like someone asked before, this weekend or the last?

greedrex · 10.12.2008, 05:41 AM

tha romantic rippa

Death & the Maiden · 10.12.2008, 05:45 AM

Was she drunk too?

Death & the Maiden · 10.12.2008, 05:47 AM

Not that I'd know anything. I probably wouldn't be at a party with alcohol.

Torn Curtain · 10.12.2008, 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Danny Himself

Drunk girls are lame. That's the real problem.

And even more so are drunk guys...

10.12.2008, 04:34 AM	#1
ZEROpumpkins invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 6,157	Right I know you guys have much more important shit to do, so I'll keep it short (and in point form) Drunk on weekend Hung out with awesome girl @ party the whole night Nothing happened (friend walked in while on couch), but got her number and myspace Myspace is private, need last name to add SMS'd her my email, was low on credit so dunno if she got it What do I do now? Should I assume the worst that she got my sms and didn't want to add me to msn? Rep to helpers. __________________
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10.12.2008, 04:42 AM	#2
pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	Why don't you just call her, you know, with your actual voice over the phone. Ask her what her last name is for the myspace (hopefully she'll think it is cute that you cared to call "personally"). And then give her an open ended invitation to whatever shindig is going on next weekend. Ball is in her court. Who gives a fuck about myspace? Just use it as an excuse to talk to her and/or see her again some time.
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10.12.2008, 04:50 AM	#4
greedrex invito al cielo Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in yr fotobukit Posts: 6,588	you should call her and ask her of she likes sex. if she answers "yes", GO FORTH AND THRASH! if she answers "no", ask again but insert "please" at the end of the question. Girls like polite dudes , you'll see. __________________ Greed Recordings bandcamp ~The Rex~, stalkin' yr shit since 2008.
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10.12.2008, 04:52 AM	#6
Danny Himself invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 9,623	Drunk girls are lame. That's the real problem.
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10.12.2008, 04:58 AM	#8
pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	Well if she frightens you, why are you interested in her? Might as well just do nothing if you don't want to talk to her or meet her or anything. What's worse than acting like you care too much is acting like you care less than you actually do.
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10.12.2008, 05:01 AM	#9
ZEROpumpkins invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 6,157	No I care heaps, I'm worried that I'll come on too strong, that's the problem. __________________
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10.12.2008, 05:09 AM	#10
pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	Well coming off as too weak isn't going to solve this. A phone call is perfect. If you need an excuse for yourself, think of it as though you are just calling to make plans for next weekend. Call on wednesday. Mention the party and how you got her myspace but not her name. When she tells you, repeat her name back to her in full. And then also ask if she knows of anything going on next weekend. She probably won't, so mention that you will call her if you hear of anything on your end. Say goodbye, hang up. Keep a casual tone and you won't be coming off as strong. Make yourself a drink if you need to calm your nerves.
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10.12.2008, 05:12 AM	#11
Trasher02 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 6,356	Get some credit for your cell phone and just text her again. __________________ 666
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10.12.2008, 05:13 AM	#12
terriblecanyons invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: the land where large fuzzy dice still hang proudly like testicles from rear-view mirrors Posts: 5,949	Call her. Talk to her. Keep in mind this advice is coming from an actual girl.
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10.12.2008, 05:21 AM	#14
greedrex invito al cielo Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in yr fotobukit Posts: 6,588	^^yes. TC, yr location is kinda frightening. __________________ Greed Recordings bandcamp ~The Rex~, stalkin' yr shit since 2008.
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10.12.2008, 05:41 AM	#17
greedrex invito al cielo Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in yr fotobukit Posts: 6,588	tha romantic rippa __________________ Greed Recordings bandcamp ~The Rex~, stalkin' yr shit since 2008.
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10.12.2008, 05:45 AM	#18
Death & the Maiden expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 2,036	Was she drunk too? __________________ www.myspace.com/ghostofanidealwife
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10.12.2008, 05:47 AM	#19
Death & the Maiden expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 2,036	Not that I'd know anything. I probably wouldn't be at a party with alcohol. __________________ www.myspace.com/ghostofanidealwife
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